Posted by:
Cochise
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Date: July 10, 2016 04:10PM
1. I regret talking to them and telling them about my son who was on a mission in Colorado and would be coming home soon when they came with a much larger group of missionaries into the burrito shop where I was eating lunch in the small town where I live. I regret offhandedly telling them they were welcome to stop by anytime.
2. I regret agreeing to meet with the missionaries after my TBM wife had told me she had arranged a time for us to meet with them after they had repeatedly come by at lest three times looking for me while I was out of town. I was dumb founded and asked why were they coming by and my wife said to meet and talk with you.
3. I regret not seeing through the Sales Bullshit more clearly ( even though I was going out of town for sales training at the time) and way too easily bought into their tactics to establish trust. and easily opened myself up into actually liking them as people and trusting them as individuals
4. I regret not realizing the insincerity when they would say they look forward to coming to our house to meet with me or" they always feel the spirit strongest in our home" even though I had not been an active member for some time.
5. I regret following my wife's urging to open up to them and tell them very personal and spiritual experiences after when they seemingly would tell me about themselves and hardships they may have face growing up. and my wife would ask me in private they have told you personal things about their lives why are you not opening up to them about your hardships?
5. I regret loving them and seeing them as angels or rescuers of me because of my desire to become a better person, husband , father, and how I am living my life (quite happy out of the church)
6. I regret being 100% honest with them because I thought they were being 100% honest with me. and not recognizing the pious attitudes when I revealed honest heartfelt convictions .or revealing my sins to them when I was blindsided when one of them asked what were my sins that were keeping me from believing in the church. and I was completely honest when I told them i struggled with porn. or when I told them I had prayed about the truthfulness of the BOM I had gotten an an strong impression that JS was a very narcissistic person who felt that the Bible does not compare with the Glory of the Book of Mormon. when I shared this with them I was told "Satan must really want you"
In summary, I regret trusting/loving them and seeing them as friends and not seeing the situation for what it actually was , a sales call with sales women and I was just another number / reactivation to them. and not that they truly cared about me as a person. Boy was I dumb!!!
In hindsite they use emotional appeal to sell their product: everything is about feeling. but very little about honesty