Posted by:
candm
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Date: March 27, 2011 03:16AM
I'm a high school teacher, and I see lots of teens suffering from too little sleep; I don't notice it drastically affecting their school performance --achievers are determined to achieve, not matter the cost, whereas when kids underperform it is most often attributable to their home situation in general rather than to their sleep hours --so much as that I really see lack of sufficient sleep affect kids by dramatically increasing their stress levels. So you have unhappy, stressed out teens achieving (or not) in school. Add to that the fact that, in our area, we have two seminary teachers, one who is intelligent and trying to help kids think, but she knows little about classroom management, so any kid who wants to actually pay attention has to listen over all the chatting and goofing off; the other teacher is a real 'sweet spirit,' constantly telling the kids how much he loves them and loves the gospel and then he puts on a video, while all but two of the class members either have their heads down, are texting the whole time, or are doing homework. -What's the point? Neither teacher wants to 'discipline' class members because they are just glad they showed up! It's the repeated lesson: obediently attend this church sponsored class/activity/meeting, be bored, turn your brain off, don't admit it.
There are SO many good things for teens to be involved in: sports, dance, music, jobs, clubs, etc. etc., that even in my TBM days I felt that conflict between 'oh, I must encourage my children to attend seminary, YMYW, the next youth baptism, presidency meeting' -when their non-church activities frequently had more worth.