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Date: September 14, 2016 04:37PM
My father in law retired this past spring. My family (my wife and I have several young children) live several states away (about 4 hours by plane or 20+ hours by car). We visit when we can (at least once per year, usually twice) and have flown them out to visit us on occasion. Maybe every other year.
When I let co-workers know about his retirement, several mentioned that we could now expect more visits. What grandparent wouldn't want to enjoy more time with grandchildren, they reasoned.
haha.
Mormon grandparents, that's who.
We have seen them once since their retirement. Meanwhile, how much time has gone to the church?
They have spent 10-20 hours a week doing temple work. They have increased their time with church callings (working with scouts and the youth; think pioneer trek type activities). They have gone on church history trips.
And now, we just learned, they have submitted their paperwork to serve missions. They requested for a European location.
Argh.
How messed up in your head do you have to be to choose a religion over visiting/spoiling your grand-children? Especially grandchildren you can't see just any time you want?
Sorry for the rant. I'm hurt for my children's sake.