Posted by:
Nightingale
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Date: March 26, 2011 06:39PM
honestone Wrote:
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> Of course there should be guilt for causing others
> and Jesus to be disappointed in you. No one is
> perfect and making mistakes caused you to feel
> guilty. But as a Christian we have our sins
> forgiven if we ask and repent. And it is expected
> that you will not make the same mistake. What is
> hard to understand about that? If you repeatedly
> sin then you are far from being a Christian.
What is hard to understand about that is that many self-described Christians interpret it differently. No wonder non-Christians are confused! In my travels through different denominations and groups, I've been perpetually confused. Same Bible, different take on it. Who's right?
I've been wondering since childhood - if we're born "imperfect", through no fault of our own (other than in Mormon theology when it is, apparently, our fault due to our PE antics) why should we beat ourselves up for "making mistakes"?
As for not making the same mistake again - isn't that what grace is about? We're imperfect, we sin, we cannot, apparently by the design of God, atone for ourselves so we constantly need grace to be forgiven - and so the ongoing cycle goes throughout our lives.
>What is hard to understand about that?
It could be hard to understand if it's a different inculcation of dogma from birth than the one others have had.
It could be hard to understand if it's not rational or consistent.
It could be hard to understand if 100 different Christian groups interpret the scripture differently from each other (Is truth 100 versions of the same words? We decry Joseph Smith for his three versions of the first vision. How much more erroneous could 100 versions be?)
It could be hard to understand if it's not making sense.
>If you repeatedly sin then you are far from being a Christian.
According to any doctrine I've read in mainstream Christianity and even in offshoot groups, humans are sinful and will continue to sin from youth to death ("born in sin...die in sin"). I have always felt frustrated, being a perfectionist, that no matter how much effort I expend I will never be "perfect". Even as we pray and ask for forgiveness, even at the moment we supposedly receive it, we're still imperfect, according to time-honoured Christian doctrine.
Everybody, according to Christianity, "repeatedly sins".
It's what makes it all so bloody depressing.
Except for grace.
Which all too many Christians shrink down into a tiny package and parcel it out frugally, even to themselves.
My intense study and observation of this facet of Christianity is that the interpretation is varied, the ideas are irrational and the application is inconsistent.
We're born imperfect, which is something that is thrust upon us, not of our own doing (except in Mormonism). We are always going to be imperfect, no matter how rigidly we hold ourselves, how much effort we exert, how many rules we stringently obey or what we accomplish in life. We need grace to get through our mortality but it is, according to all-too-many Christians, in short supply and grudgingly parcelled out. And even then, we're still sinful.
That's about how it goes, as far as I can ascertain.
Why outsiders don't understand it or can't believe it makes perfect sense to me.
Unlike a lot of Christian doctrine itself (especially when considered through the prism of 10,000 different denoms, all with their own explanations for even the most basic of tenets).
That's why it's so "hard to understand".
For starters.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/26/2011 06:56PM by Nightingale.