lilith - the now demon, flame haired, child-eating, refused-to-submit-to-husband, first wife of adam, according to some legends.
That was the in-joke in the tv shows "Cheers" and then "Frasier" regarding Frasier's ex-wife. One could say that Lilith was the original feminist who refused to give up her power to her husband. For her 'crime' she was cursed to become the consort of the daemon samael and eat babies.