Posted by:
Tevai
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Date: April 10, 2017 01:04AM
rebeljamesdean Wrote:
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> Tevai:
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> Very thoughtful and interesting post, but I am a
> little bit confused.
>
> You state that there are a large number of people
> who "just always knew" that they "were" Jews. What
> are you saying?
>
> Is this something like Rachel Dolezal, who was
> born to two white parents, who identifies as
> black?
I don't know anything about Rachel Dolezal, but it may be either similar, or the same situation.
I don't know of any other way to say it...there are a [relatively] large percentage of people in the general population who---at some point---begin to realize what a Jew "is," and know that it is THEM. I know this not only because of my own conversion class, but because once this topic comes up, either Jews who are strangers to you, or people who know others that this applies to, generally cut into the conversation to say: "Yes! That was me!" or "Yes! That happened to my cousin/uncle/aunt/parent/grandparent/neighbor [whatever]."
The only thing I can liken it to that is generally acknowledged is a kid who always knew or felt that s/he was "different," and then discovers---at some point---that they are gay or transgender...and at THAT instant, "it" all makes sense.
What I am describing about some Jews who are converts to Judaism is a very similar situation. This is not about religion, it is about peoplehood. You just "know" that YOU "are" [somehow] a member of the tribe, even if that appears ridiculous from outside appearances.
What happens next is a hodge-podge of possibilities, depending on WHERE this realization takes place (it generally makes a huge difference whether you live in a place like Los Angeles or New York where there are tons of Jews...OR you live in a place like Omaha---if this realization happens when someone is living in an area of few or no Jews, coming to terms with it can take a very long time).
In places with large numbers of Jews, there are many different ways to explore these feelings in places which would "feel safe": Jewish book/music stores, Jewish delis, or your local Jewish congregations, for example.
Follow Your Heart, which is our local health food store (and which I know for a fact that Alec Baldwin goes to, because he sat at the next table to us once :) ), has free copies of the JEWISH JOURNAL, a local publication, outside the store in the racks, for the taking. Any random copy of the JEWISH JOURNAL, which covers the entire spectrum of Jewish life in Southern California, would give anyone who was interested in Judaism in any way countless leads to Jewish events, like lectures or classes or holiday celebrations, or discussions of current events or classes on just about anything even vaguely related to Jewish life, from learning Hebrew to learning Israeli folk dancing to classes on how to prepare traditional foods for Passover (with your choice of Ashkenazi or Sephardi traditional foods, or maybe even something like Yemenite traditional foods).
It would be much more difficult for many people in other places to get up the courage to attend a Friday night service at their local Reform congregation (which is the least "scariest" possibility most anywhere).
At some point, though, these people generally get enough courage to do SOMETHING...and that leads (much more easily than they could have anticipated) to something else...and from that to something else again, and (even though it may take years) to a one-on-one talk with a rabbi, or to a conversion to Judaism class.
What many people do (especially if they are teenagers or young adults) is something that they generally think THEY invented: they start looking (specifically) for Jews to date and to get romantically involved with. This is, of course, THE least scariest way of all, since you are usually dealing with someone you already "know" to some extent or another.
Many people begin reading novels with Jewish characters and situations, or they seek out Jewish non-fiction books (biographies, histories, etc.)...or they take a class in Hebrew (etc.) at their local community college or whatever.
And for some of these, they really do go on to become Jews.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/10/2017 01:06AM by Tevai.