Posted by:
catnip
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Date: June 26, 2017 11:59PM
As a new convert, I was told about it, with the caveat that since it was now illegal, it is no longer practiced, except in the Celestial Kingdom, which apparently has a law unto itself.
A Mormon family that befriended me and my adolescent son seemed very easygoing and kind, inviting us over, enjoying the desserts or salads that I brought. Son and I enjoyed their company. They seemed like very nice people.
And then I gradually noticed that the husband was trying to make an ever-so-subtle move on me. I said, in a very un-subtle way, "Dude, you're MARRIED." He just grinned and said, "Don't forget, we believe in polygamy." I gave him an ice-cold glare and said, "I DON'T." His wife was in the kitchen or something. I got up, told her I needed to go home, thanked her for supper, and left.
I felt like crying, on the way home. I genuinely liked this couple, considered them to be good friends, and had to deal with the fact that the husband was trying weasel his way into an extra-marital fling. I felt betrayed and humiliated.
His wife told me a couple of years later that the guy had had affairs. I confessed that he had tried to flirt with me, and that was why I had distanced myself from them. She and I both started crying. I told her that my ex had cheated, blatantly, on me, and that I would NEVER do that to another woman.
Last I knew, they were still together, but she was not happy. Their young daughters, who had been around 10 and 12 when we first became friends, told me as mid-teens that they were disgusted with their father. He was still a p-hood holder in good standing. Yuck.
Polygamy is disgusting.