Yesterday, I had to tell my mom exactly how bad things have been in my life. I divorced a narcissist (she never knew he was abusive while we were married). I lost my job because I was so depressed I couldn't function. SO I finally hit the point where I need to tell my mom. I've tried to not tell her becuase I assumed she would attribute my recent pitfalls directly to leaving the church. Well, she did not do that. I'm so glad I was wrong about her response. I've gained much needed support from someone that wants nothing but the best from me. Sometimes, I feel there is a huge rift between us because I left Mormonism, but yesterday, there was no rift. I feel such a relief. People suprise you sometimes.

nice - I'm happy for you.

Its pretty common for church members to speak the party lines However I'm glad to see your mom is one of those moms whose family bonds are important without the church having to say its important. Actually warms my heart a bit. My mom has lately mostly stopped bothering me about church but then again church doesn't take up every single moment of her time either.

Yah! Good to hear