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Date: July 17, 2017 06:54PM
Posted by: Bentaylor23 ( )
Date: March 17, 2016 12:56AM
Told my wife. Did I make a mistake?
So I've been married for 10 years, whole family both sides are members and we have 2 kids. Went on a mission, married in the temple blah blah blah. I've always had doubts and it's only gotten worse since I moved away from Utah about 6 years ago. I have never been fully active missing church as much as possible but lately my wife noticed I wasn't going at all. She finally forced me to tell her my thoughts on it. She was angry and has given me the cold shoulder this whole week. I called her out on it and she said she needs time to process it. She's upset our family is no longer perfect and won't raise our young children with the same values. I told her I have not changed any of my values. Nothing has changed in fact; I just can't keep blindly going to church and pretending anymore. She said she's going to tell family and friends. I don't know what to do. I know I can't convince her to do any actually research on the church. She has too many friends and family in the church and would never leave. Even if she knew the church was a lie. What do I do? What's the next step to make this easier?
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