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Date: July 26, 2017 11:49PM
Mormons are notoriously poor employers. Make no mistake, the other women are judging you and your lifestyle, at the same time envying you because of it. They probably imagine you having boatloads of non-marital sex, and they don't like it one bit. They're stressed out and can't abide seeing anyone who isn't equally stressed, thus the inquisition. Honestly, I can't see what's admirable about them.
All that said, what to do? Utah is an at-will state
"which means that an employee hired for an indefinite period is presumed to be an employee who can be terminated at any time, for any reason or for no reason at all. In other words, and by way of example, your employer can decide to let you go, even if you are their best employee, even if they don't give you any warnings, and even if you have actually done nothing wrong."
https://laborcommission.utah.gov/FAQ/discrimination_in_employment.htmlYou don't say if this maltreatment is something new, or if it has been going on for awhile. Although it's illegal in Utah to fire an employee due to gender, proving it will IMO be extremely difficult if you are terminated by another woman. To be painfully blunt, you are at their mercy.
I would ask them for specific examples, to make their subjective criteria more concrete. Years ago during an annual performance review, I was accused of certain behavioral shortcomings. Knowing these were false charges, I challenged my supervisor to name even one occurrence. (After all, for it to be formally brought up, it should constitute a regular pattern or a singular memorable instance of egregiously poor conduct.) He was unable to come up with anything to support his charge. I then asked if it was unreasonable to expect him to back it up, if it was so damn important, and he acknowledged that I was right. Clearly, the company was looking for a way, however contrived, to keep me down, and I called them on it. When I saw where I stood, I left that company within the year.
I'm sorry to say that if they truly have the knives out, you may not have much recourse. Keep your resume updated and ready. Be proactive. Try to find a position where you don't report to Mormons; it will do wonders for your stress level.