Posted by:
Breeze
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Date: September 03, 2017 05:14PM
Rebellion does NOT have to be a bad thing!
My kids are not "goody-goody", but they are very athletic , and they have always naturally loved learning. They had to work after school, and on weekends and holidays, as I was a single divorced mother, who had to struggle for a few years. They are also hilariously funny!
Their rebellion against the Mormons and their Mormon peers in the neighborhood, took the opposite turn. In reality, Mormonism is a scummy, lying cult, founded by a crook. My children rose above it. They wouldn't tolerate the rude gossip and lies, the cheating in school, the boys grabbing the girls in the halls, (my daughters punched and kicked a few Mormon pervs) the Mormon sexism, racism and homophobia. My kids stood up for the underdogs, and the Mormon kids snubbed them for it. As a result, my kids ended up with BETTER friends. Half the kids in the schools were non-Mormon.
Most of the Mormon kids drank until they puked (that's not a fun party), and they came to church with hangovers. In Sunday school class, they would brag about their sexual exploits. Some of them got into taking drugs (they were rich kids, and could afford drugs) and selling drugs to younger kids. The worst "pushers" were the Bishop's kids, and, for too long, no one said or did anything about it. The previous bishop's daughter came to school with a loaded gun, and threatened suicide, and the authorities didn't even suspend her. The same girl came over to our house, threatening suicide, and had been to other houses, before ours. I immediately lured her into my car and drove her to the ER. She spend 2 weeks in their phych ward, and got help. Her parents would not allow her to come to my daughters' slumber parties, when she was younger, because we "did not have the priesthood in the home." No, and we don't have guns and ammo lying around, either. The stake presidents snotty son got a TBM neighbor girl pregnant, right before his mission. His mission was postponed a few months, the girl was sent off to Idaho to have her baby and adopt it away, through LDS Social Services, and life went on. There were way too many unwanted pregnancies, for one high school.
My kids were hurt, sometimes, by the snobbery, but for the most part, they were respected and loved by their good friends. One son's friends became his business partners. A lot of my other son's friends joined the same fraternity at the U of Utah, and they still have parties, go to Lake Powell, go to Yellowstone, together, with their wives and kids. My daughters married young men in the neighborhood--who have good character and solid values. (Tattoos and wine with dinner, and belonging to other religions are not crimes.) After all the nonsense, my kids actually feel bad for the Mormon kids they grew up with. Many of those kids were beaten by their TBM parents.
Adoylelb's improved health is a good example of "Mormon whiplash" in a positive direction. I did this, too. I got rid of those old Mormon pioneer recipes that included lard, butter, sugar, and jell-o. Trashed the garments in the garbage, and dressed my healthier body in cuter clothes.
Exercise, to me, is a rebellion. Sports, for my kids, took up a lot of their time and energy, and their team mates became some of their best friends. Skiing and mountain biking on Sundays!
The Mormon teachings are so negative, that getting rid of the fables and threats, can brighten up your life, a great deal. Positive thinking was my biggest "rebellion."
Loving others--an in-your-face rebellion against Mormonism!
Donating and volunteering to real charities!
Loud laughter! My children were over here yesterday, with the grandchildren, and my sides hurt from laughing!
Success! "Living well is the best revenge."