Posted by:
knotheadusc
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Date: October 23, 2017 05:09AM
Some of you who have been around awhile know my story. My husband was a Mormon convert for a few years when he was married to his ex wife. He has two daughters with her and had claimed her older son as his, although he never legally adopted him. Ex is now remarried and has two more kids with her third victim.
In the wake of his divorce, the ex wife engaged in extreme parental alienation tactics. Although he paid child support and tried to maintain the relationship, my husband has not seen his daughters in person since 2004. In 2006, they sent letters demanding that he allow their stepfather to adopt them, which my husband refused to do.
Younger daughter is now 23, a returned missionary, and married to a RM. She started emailing my husband this year. Last night, my husband told me that his daughter had a baby boy last week. She sent him a picture. Older daughter remains totally estranged.
I don't know if or when they will ever see each other. I knew this day was coming, so I wasn't totally shocked when he gave me the news. I think he's feeling a little weird about it, since for so long, she wouldn't speak to him and refused to acknowledge him. She's now calling him Dad again. I kind of prefer to stay out of the whole mess.
I hope she's had a change of heart, but it's hard to trust her. Her older brother, my husband's former stepson, got in touch for a few years and then totally screwed my husband over for money. Younger daughter has so far just been emailing and not making requests.
I wish the baby luck and hope his mother doesn't turn out to be like his grandmother and great grandmother. Most of all, I hope his parents are able to stay together and, if they aren't, he doesn't turn into a pawn like his mother and aunt were.