Posted by:
Free Man
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Date: October 22, 2017 11:46PM
Hate to break it to you, but many people aren't into sex that much, especially after they have you locked down in marriage. Doesn't mean there is a problem - people are different. Generally, men like it more than women, testosterone and all.
Just because she was in church doesn't mean she was brainwashed. I know many nonmormon men who have your same problem. The sex was good while dating or early on, but after time, or when kids come, not so much.
One of the myths that gets men to commit to marriage is that there will be lots of sex.
Here's a discussion by women who hate sex:
https://forums.webmd.com/3/sex-and-relationships-exchange/forum/9407?pg=1A few excerpts:
"I am a healthy 26yr old female. I have been married for 6 years and I absolutely hate sex!! If it was up to me I would never ever have sex. I feel so bad for my poor husband because Im never in the mood. He always has to beg for sex and the whole time Im just ready for it to be over. I dont want to be this way!! When we were teenagers I was normal and actually liked sex but not now. Im so scared that it is going to ruin my marriage."
"Thank you for this informed post. I agree that the majority of married women I talk to (privately) that they would be happy if they never had to have sex again. They go through the motions for their husbands and those that don't, get divorced."
"My husband and I are in our 20s (24 & 25) and we have been together for 10 yrs this year, married for 6 yrs. We have 3 children together, and do not have an active sex life. We are very healthy individuals also. Abstinence is choice, and my husband deals with it because he does not want a divorce or to live a life apart from me and our children. This has never been an issue.
Sex for me is about procreation, not recreation. We have sex when planning to conceive and then it stops. We sleep in separate rooms. I do not let my husband touch me. I do not let my husband see me naked. When we have had sex, its fully- clothed sex, lights out, and no kissing or foreplay. Just quick sex to do the job. Our youngest just turned 2 and we will not be having anymore children, and I do not anticipate or forsee us ever having a reason to have sex ever again. I certainly do not initiate or ask for it on my own. I hate it so much! "