Posted by:
Mother Who Knows
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Date: October 24, 2017 03:18AM
(My name is ironic--making fun of a Mormon general conference RS speech--I know nothing.)
Have courage, Cl2. I just have to tell you that I'm a single mother, too, and my TBM husband, the father of my children, abandoned all of us, and I struggled as sole support for my family, until my career gradually took off. My children all took whatever jobs they could find, starting when they were too young to do anything but babysit, have a paper route, or do yard work. They didn't have much time, but one son loved video games. He would give his brother and sisters video games for Christmas--the games he, himself wanted, and it was a joke. He also loved playing football, skiing, and all other sports. He graduated from high school early, so he could work at the Honda shop in the summer, and the ski shop in Snowbird in the winter. He married his TBM high school cheerleader girlfriend, who relentlessly pursued him, even though he didn't go on a mission. He was/is very good looking, and she didn't care about his other qualities. Two years later, he came home from work, to find their apartment cleared out, and a note on the kitchen counter. She had been cheating on him, and she had run away to live with a rich guy, from Beverly Hills. My son was devastated. He moved back home with me, and finished his degree at the University of Utah. I loved having him home, and he had such nice friends. Still, I was so worried about him, that I sent him to a psychiatrist, who pronounced him to be one of the sanest people he had ever met. My son and his two best ex-Mormon friends from high school (Stanford graduates) started a business, which became a success. He bought a house down the street from us.
Your son has been divorced for 10 years, but it is never too late! My son had been divorced for 14 years, when he married a very down-to-earth ex-Mormon girl, who had never been married. We love her! They just had their second child, a few weeks ago. He is 43, and she is 38. They are remodeling their house, and are enjoying all the joys of life. They are good people, and they deserve it. I just got a photo of him playing video games with his 2-year old and the newborn. Some things never change.
Hang in there. Good things are waiting for you, down the road!