Posted by:
Nightingale
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Date: November 22, 2017 03:36PM
I cannot believe it was that long ago. I've been here for ages. Much, much longer than I was associated with Mormonism. Crazy. But in a good way.
I tangled with the Colonel too. For those who weren't here then, as saucie says he was rabidly anti-gay and voiced it from a Christian perspective. Both points really got to me as (1) I had been an EV myself (middle of the road sort though, not the truly fundy ones) and didn't like the seamy underbelly to show - actually wasn't that aware of it before then and (2) I loved, loved, loved TLC (Tom Clark) a gay man who posted from his perspective, in a time when those issues weren't, in general, getting as much attention or recognition or progress (or acceptance) as now. Tom is a fabulous writer, he shared incredible experiences from his BICness, I still remember his amazing, and unique, mission to Italy, and he was totally beautiful inside and out.
And CTK was rabidly anti-TLC et al and it was hard to watch. I so wish the best of those exchanges had been archived (posts/pages timed out back then and unless something was archived posts became cyberdust at some point). I don't remember TLC being confrontational but I could be forgetting. I do recall his incredible gift for sharing his experiences as a gay BIC Mormon in such a heartfelt and poignant way. I wanted to meet TLC. Heck, I wanted to marry him! (But wait, that wouldn't have worked out so well, for either of us). CTK, otoh, made me come to dislike EV Christianity, at least his brand of it, and I had still liked my church at that point. (I know you can't let one person or experience turn you off something valuable to you but hey, sometimes if the right buttons are pushed it happens).
So what I mean about CTK and EV'ness for me is that, although I obviously didn't make forever choices due to one internet poster I didn't care for, he missed his purpose with me, if that was his intent, in that rather than converting me to his POV, he estranged me due to his predictable and frequent rants arising from the most controversial and unappealing parts of radical fundyism.
He disappeared abruptly at some point. I think he may have passed away. I don't have any proof of that, just an impression. Of course, you can't totally judge someone only by their postings but it is a component of who they are. I never wanted to run into CTK. TLC, otoh, ...
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 11/22/2017 03:39PM by Nightingale.