Posted by:
Tevai
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Date: December 13, 2017 12:26PM
Badassadam1 Wrote:
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> I was kind of afraid that there would be no actual
> arrival point that it would keep going on and on.
> No point when i could say i finally made it to
> the goal type of thing.
You can make it to "the" goal over and over and over again (much of life is deciding to do something specific, then figuring out the steps in a practical plan which will, step-by-step, get you to that goal)...
...but if "it" was all over at that point (like a movie where the goal is reached: the guy gets the girl (or the other way around ;) )...or the isolated town gets the schoolhouse or the aqueduct they need...or the military forces successfully overcome the warlords they are fighting against...if life then "stopped" (so far is growth is concerned) then life beyond that point would quickly pale into passive boredom. We, the viewers of either the film, or our friends in real life, all know that the guy and the girl are, now together, heading into the continuing challenges of living life as a committed couple (and possibly creating a family, with all of the challenges which will then arise as a result)...the town which now has its schoolhouse or aqueduct is soon going to need a significant upgrade on the major highway which connects them to the next town (or they will need to get rid of the dangerous bank robbers who are roaming the area)...and the victorious military forces will quickly be assigned to other places and other difficult challenges.
In real life, life DOES "keep going on and on," but it is the stretching and the challenges which keep life interesting and make us feel life is personally worthwhile to each of us.
Human beings NEED challenges, and one of the things you learn as an adult is: when you reach a goal, that soon signals the need to start thinking about your NEXT challenge, the "life assignment" which will cause you to think, and feel, and work to your full capacities to accomplish something [else] which is worthy, and will result in a better "you," and a better "world" [around you] too---whether this means you and the people in your chosen family who are your closest companions, or in your community, or maybe you decide to join the Peace Corps and fly off to someplace you may not even know exists right now, but where the challenges which await there will keep you vibrant and growing and actively LIVING.
A whole lot of life is in the "problems" of life, and it is in the solving of those problems that we create a lifetime we will be proud of when it is time for us to die.
> Appreciate the support tevai i think you gave me
> the vitamin advice which i do think is doing
> something as well. This cold weather is still a
> bitch though and still makes me bitch on the
> inside buuut oh well.
I'm glad the nutritional supplements are helping, and I am sorry about the cold. If the cold really is affecting you particularly badly, maybe you could start to think about somewhere else to live which is warmer in the winter. I don't know where that might be, but you may know, if you "listen" to yourself. Just asking the question can lead to "a" "right" answer (a random thought that comes into your mind...a song on the radio...a fragment of a dream some night), if you're on the lookout for any promptings that are coming from inside yourself.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 12/13/2017 01:15PM by Tevai.