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Nightingale
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Date: May 11, 2018 01:10PM
Out of the blue my sister has received a VIP invite to a performance by the Mormon Tabernacle Choir when they are touring in our area soon.
I posted a while back about a community event she participated in that was chaired by an LDS woman. (It was a challenge for my assertive sis to work with her, due to a clash of wills, but they managed it).
We guess that's how she came to their attention. She rolled her eyes at the thought of a Tab concert but she's going to go. Better her than me. I'm not overly fond of generic choir music but tend more towards specialty groups such as the Welsh Men's Choir on a seasonal basis (and usually every year for their Remembrance Day performance).
I've been in SLC a couple of times. Went into the Tabernacle at Temple Square, saw the Christ statue, all that. Ran into an RM I had known when he was here on his mission. He was pretty shocked to see me, likely amazed I was still a member (as so many converts "see the light" and make for the hills a lot sooner than I did).
Funny how one little thing, such as sis mentioning her Tab invite, can bring memories flooding in. Not the best memories of my life.
I attended conference in SLC one time. In the pouring rain. Masses of people lined up at the conference centre doors. Saw an SP I knew from home who offered to get me a ticket, bypassing the crowds. I didn't like the elitism of that and declined. Ended up watching conference in the Tabernacle (if my memory is accurate, there was a screen set up there?). A few of the top guys had to come and sit on the stage (some of the 12?) They didn't look happy about it. One in particular wore a positively nasty expression all the way through. I interpreted it to mean he was unhappy to be relegated to the cheap seats. (I could be wrong; maybe he was habitually that way. I couldn't imagine him being a disciple, apostle, whatever, or in any way ever comforting the masses). Being "only" a convert, I had no idea how things worked or their names or positions or who they were exactly.
All too often, those men who have the opportunity to be "shepherds" (a valued position in Bible lore) miss the boat. I couldn't imagine ever going to them in need, certainly wouldn't expect kindness. Could be wrong - just the impression they gave that day. The one I remember particularly had piercing eyes and he seemed to keep glaring at me. I had NO CLUE what I could have done wrong or why he seemed so unhappy with me.
Kind of a familiar impression and feeling I had during my entire tenure as a so-called convert (3 years). I seemed to always be on the outs with an uncomfortable, oppressive feeling of being less than, unwelcome, having done something wrong but no idea what it could be.
Crazy how just the mention of seeing the Tab choir could unleash not only all those memories of my Mormon interlude but all the negative feelings as well.
I know it's rough, and then some, for BICs, of course. But converts get hurt too.
Fortunately for me, there are many more things in life than Mormonism, and it's easy for me to get away from it and let the good feelings abound. The last Canadian hockey team standing won their series last night against Nashville, we're having a party for the Royal wedding next week (I know, trashy), the sun is (almost) shining, the weekend's upon us and things could be much, much worse.
I hope it's so for everybody here too. (Especially the hockey part). :)
Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 05/11/2018 04:56PM by Nightingale.