like telling a tbm of a sister , you didn't go to byu, serve a mission, or have a recommend for instant marriage. but yet when a investigator comes around the sisters are all dreamy eyed. … sucks to be straight forward but the exceptions are gone and more relaxed.
I did that once about 20-yes,20!-years ago right when this nevermos fascination with moism was at its height. Within a day two my fake profile had several “widowed” men showing interest. I was quickly spooked and, feeling really guilty, I deleted my profile.
I just felt so sorry for the poor schmucks and felt like i was humiliating them for my own amusement.