Posted by:
exminion
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Date: July 24, 2018 11:44PM
Don't run interference with the Mormons, and see what happens, naturally. You are not a member, and part of that non-membership means that you are not obligated to attend any of their activities. Don't go. It's as simple as that. The cult will shoot itself in the foot, and your wife will see its dark underbelly.
Be extra kind to your wife, as she will find no love, no real friendship in that cult--especially with you not there by her side. Make plans to do something fun together after the Mormon activity is over, or the next night. My husband left the cult before I did, and that's what he did. We had good times together, outside of church, but I never had a husband with me for Mormon functions. Soon, I was marginalized as "the wife of an inactive elder." All of our (my) friends were couples, and I was excluded from the Mormon couples activities. I was disrespected the same way as a single woman is disrespected in the Mormon cult. I was blamed for my husband's inactivity. From my husband's perspective, I saw how rude the Mormons were to him. I saw how they relentlessly pestered him. Groups of priesthood men came to our door often, to "persuade" him to go to meetings. Their group tactics reminded me of Mafia thugs from the movies. They had no respect for my husband. and no boundaries in trying to interfere in our marriage and in our parenting.
Don't fake support for your wife. Don't protect her, either. This might seem cruel to you, but your wife needs to know exactly what she has chosen to be part of. Because my husband didn't offer me support, I was left alone to be eaten alive by the Mormon sharks. They made unreasonable demands on my time, even when I was weak, and recovering from childbirth. Mormon men in the ward propositioned me, they bullied my children, the bishop threatened that our family would not be together in the hereafter, and they forced me to pay tithing on my household allowance (my husband's money) and my small income from stocks. My husband arranged our accounts, so that our money was safe from the Mormons. I really had a good look at how horrible that cult was, and I resigned, with the kids, within a year.