Posted by:
olderelder
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Date: July 25, 2018 06:09PM
Yesterday I was swapping stories with an English cinematographer when I realized the tale I was part way into telling required explaining I had been a missionary. The story would make little sense without that information, and if I left it out the followup questions would lead back around to me needing to reveal it anyway. Years ago I pledged to myself I wouldn't hide my former Mormon life. So I just continued the story. "I was a Mormon missionary at the time and..." No big deal. No drama. He didn't mock me or suddenly walk away.
Despite my anxiety, I've never been mistreated by nevermos when I reveal my past. If I don't treat it like a big deal, they don't either. Maybe it helps that I roll my eyes when I say, "I was raised a Mormon."