Posted by:
Amyjo
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Date: September 29, 2018 09:00PM
The cousin I stayed with during my brother's funeral earlier this month. She had not met his wife before going with me to his viewing on the weekend preceding the funeral. She had a very bad first impression of my SIL, and it wasn't because she was in grieving. It was a raw first impression that was rather astute given my knowledge of her over the years.
My brother was in relatively good health when he unexpectedly died early in the morning. My SIL could hear his labored breathing through the walls from her bedroom to his, based on what we've been told. By the time paramedics could get there he was already gone.
Strangely, her half-sister was staying with them up to the day before my brother died. She moved out, and the day he died she moved back in.
Their house has been on the market for going on three months now. They're asking quite a lot of money for it. When it's sold, SIL will take all. He worked all his life to support her and his family. Now all his future dreams are for naught.
Hence, my cousin was wondering especially after she saw my SIL at brother's funeral. She told me there was just something about it that didn't feel right. My SIL walked in with much anger, and a black spot on her heart, as my cousin described.
My cousin had lost her husband just one week before my brother died, but for known reasons. He had been in poor health for some time. My brother although had some health issues, was not imminently ill. Nor was an autopsy done to determine the cause of death. They ruled it "natural causes" at 63. Cousin wanted me to play detective at his funeral, but I just couldn't. He was and is still, my brother whom I was in mourning for. My TBM in-laws do seem strange to me, but I wasn't looking at it as a murder mystery. That is, not before my cousin's suspicions became aroused.
It may be something that we'll never know for sure one way or the other.