Posted by:
Elder Berry
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Date: October 04, 2018 11:55AM
Never before is the fact that Mormonism considers non-virgin single people somehow "broken" then in the below quote from Holland.
1. “Please, never say: ‘Who does it hurt? Why not a little freedom? I can transgress now and repent later.’ Please don’t be so foolish and so cruel,” apostle Jeffrey R. Holland said in an October 1998 talk on “personal purity.” “... You run the terrible risk of such spiritual, psychic damage that you may undermine both your longing for physical intimacy and your ability to give wholehearted devotion to a later, truer love.”
It is a huge disservice to people. Virgins are NOT better at the "ability to give wholehearted devotion to a later, truer love."
And "psychic damage that you may undermine both your longing for physical intimacy" sounds a lot like Kimball's theory that looking at porn makes you a monster.
Basically, a Mormon who commits "the sin next to murder" is a flawed Mormon who is probably psychically so damaged that they can't form intimate relationships. Great message of love.
2. "The faith ends up stressing the consequences of not being chaste more than the benefits of abstaining from sex before marriage, she said. Some Latter-day Saint instructors have taught members that if they have premarital sex, they’ll be like a broken plate or a chewed piece of gum. Leavitt said they instead should talk about chastity as a way to create stronger relationships, avoid sexually transmitted diseases and promote safety in dating."
LOL! That would require the LDS leaders to disavow Holland's theory above.
3. "Church President Spencer W. Kimball is perhaps the most modern example of talking about the positive sexual relationship between husband and wife. But even then, in October 1975, he stressed that while it’s not just for procreation, “no provision was ever made by the Lord for indiscriminate sex” in a marriage."
So Mormons are now ALL ABOUT SEX because their lawyer god didn't put in a provision?
4. “The number of messages about women’s bodies, modesty, pornography, those outnumber the other messages,” Hanks said. “And I think that’s where we get confused and forget the beautiful parts.”
Link for 1,2,3, and 4.
https://www.sltrib.com/religion/local/2018/10/01/mormons-sex-before/The Mormon's "beautiful parts" are virginity and sexually being repressed until in middle age your give a shit button breaks and you go "wild" with your temple sealed spouse. Oh, what a dream of sexual fulfilment that is! Isn't it wonderful, marvelous?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/04/2018 11:56AM by Elder Berry.