Posted by:
exminion
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Date: January 22, 2019 10:07PM
I will help you narrow down your choices, by letting you know that a Mormon therapist can backfire on you! Please don't hire a Mormon! I've been posting and reading here on RFM for about 10 years, and most ex-Mormons are against Mormon therapists.
The reason I'm so against this, is that my ex-husband's TBM niece, and, years later, my ex's TBM nephew both had Mormon therapists--2 different ones, and they weren't MD psychiatrists. Both of those kids ended up committing suicide. One left a note, indicating that much of her despair was Mormon-based. Their mother was a fanatic TBM, and their bishop father ran off with another woman and was excommunicated. The mother immediately remarried an important former Stake President MD, who beat her. These were multiple issues, with multiple layers, and both of the Mormon therapists took the stance of "preserving the testimony" of both patients.
Mormons will choose their church, every time. Please, keep your child's therapy NEUTRAL!
Ask your child if they want a man or a woman therapist. It might matter, or it might not.
Hire a Psychiatrist, an MD, if you can afford it. Given your family history, your child might have an inherited chemical imbalance, and psychiatrists are best qualified to work with drugs. I, personally, went to a psychiatrist, but he didn't need to use drugs for me. I had PTSD and anxiety.
He was the president of the Utah Psychiatric Association, which was a great recommendation. Call the Association and ask.
I was new in SLC, and I found him from 3 different sources. I asked the husband of a friend, who was a child psychiatrist. I knew he wasn't taking adult patients, so there would be no competition, and I knew he would know who was the best. One of my clients was the retired head of neurology at the University of Utah Medical Center, and I asked him, too. About this time, my cousin wrote an article about her battle with bi-polar disorder, and I called her to ask her the name of her psychiatrist. All three of these sources recommended the same person! He's deceased, unfortunately.
It's like zero-ing in on a target. Ask around, ask a lot of people, until you are directed to the right person, then make sure your child has rapport with the psychiatrist.
Definitely ask your primary care physician. Note that doctors who are members of a clinical group are obligated to recommend someone within their group. Ask at the hospital. That's how I found my OBGYN.
You can't just go around asking people, "You seem like a crazy person...who is your psychiatrist? People don't like to talk about this stuff!