Posted by:
BJClarke
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Date: March 07, 2019 09:43AM
Hi, I posted here a few days ago about learning the church was not true and worried about my husband (who then still believed) and 4 children.
Well there is no worry about my husband anymore, his eyes have been opened and we are both reeling.
This is my problem:
In my last post I said I didn't hate the church. Well oh my GOD. I hate it now. I can barely sleep--the second my head hits the pillow, my mind is thinking of all these things--how I believed a lie my whole life. I dedicated my whole life to the church. It gave me a purpose. Getting to the 'celestial kingdom' was my sole purpose in life! Everything else was secondary. Now I am totally lost.
Also I hate to be alone now. I used to love being alone. Now when I am, I feel so, so alone.
I read the book of mormon EVERY DAY for YEARS because I was promised blessings. I was so, so faithful. And it's a WORK OF FICTION.
Often when I think of these things, I begin to hyperventilate/cry/want to scream/pull out my hair. Last night my husband literally drove us out to a remote area so we could both scream. It sounds dramatic but..we really needed it.
And my family!! My parents really believe. My brothers and sisters really believe. They will think I am lost. This will put a wedge between us. What kind of cruel church is this, that separates families in this way????
How do you guys get over this? How do you get 'ok' again? Will I ever be? The church messed up my mind so bad. Will I ever stop being scared to be alone, especially at night? My husband will be working graveyard shifts in less than a week and I will be alone all night, I can barely stand the thought of it.