Posted by:
stan
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Date: July 24, 2019 07:29PM
My wife became a Mormon 12 years ago, but I have told her again and again, that I will never join it. Throughout these years I have tried to be supportive to an extent, such as going to get-togethers at her church, attending the Christmas party, weddings, things along this line.
But about five years ago, I came to the realization that attending these occasions was actually depressing my spirituality. Many times, people will just start talking to me about how I should get involved more with “ the church”, and it would be just so nice for me to become a member. I always would have a depressed feeling after one of these so called up building conversations. And then several big shots from the church came over and talked to me for about an hour asking me what I believed and how true their church is. That one really pushed me over the edge. I decided at that point to just walk away from the mormons, and focus on my own beliefs. My wife seems quite secure in hers, but it will never become a part of me. Each time something comes up for me to attend, I always make sure that I have something else to do.Even someplace as safe as a restaurant becomes a chance for them to get me to join.
I’m beginning to wonder why the Mormons just can’t understand the fact that I’m not interested, Doesn’t free will mean anything to them? I guess that I could be a jerk and just start spouting off the falsities, and reasons why I’m not interested, but that might just feed their sense of righteousness and persecution, realizing that I’m a lost soul to them?
I have a great interest in religion. I attend different churches and enjoy watching religion work through people, where it’s not a requirement, or obligation. My parents were Jehovah witnesses so I have a developed sense of when religion is not right. Leaving the jw’s was really stressful, and took quite a lot of substance out of me. People that I knew for decades will not even acknowledge me in passing because I walked away, ,,, really strange.
And now dealing with the Mormons is very much like going back to that mindset for me.
So I'm asking individuals that once were Mormons,,What can I do/say to these people that would make them realize once and for all that I’m not going to join their club ?