Posted by:
behindcurtain
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Date: October 30, 2013 03:09PM
My sister almost killed herself once. She had bulimia and cut her arm. But she recovered, and now she works as a social worker. She works with young women exclusively, who got into trouble because they could afford to (their parents were rich). My sister has no problem getting paid by their rich parents, and now my sister, my younger sister, has bought her own house. I live in an apartment.
The irritating thing is that you would think that if my sister has experienced deep depression, and if she works with depressed people all the time, she would want to listen to my personal problems, which have a lot to do with Mormonism, and how Mormonism affects men in particular. But she doesn't. More to the point, she can't. She does not have the curious, patient, academic nature I have, that you need if you are going to research the truth of the Church. I was always a "brain", and she wasn't. I would welcome a close family member who truly understands how the Church has interfered with my life, and my ability to earn more money, but unfortunately she is not that family member.
The "best and the brightest" usually don't go into psychology and social work. They go into law, medicine, engineering, finance, business management, and academia. People who end up in psychology and social work often get there because they couldn't hack it in the more difficult professions. Sometimes they end up there because they had their own mental problems, as is the case with my sister. Highly intelligent psychologists and social workers do exist, but they are hard to find. I'm glad my sister survived and is prospering, but sad that even after all the education she has accumulated, she still cannot understand the mindset of people who can no longer believe in the Church.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/30/2013 03:30PM by behindcurtain.