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MIA dropout
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Date: November 18, 2019 06:53PM
That entire expensive, rehearsed, edited, scripted, slick multi-media presentation was on the par of those I have seen from very large corporations! Promotional PR stuff they show to their stock-holders.
It was also similar to those PBS lectures, by Wayne Dyer, Susie Ormond, and others, promoting their book series, DVD sets, and Websites.
Yes, it is definitely hype!
I got the feeling of evil from it. A cult is trying to control the innocent children, on every level possible, using every weapon in its arsenal. I agree that it is brainwashing and peer-pressure, in the extreme. It is also PERFECTIONISM.
It's like my authoritarian Mormon parents, always expecting us kids to be perfect, always pestering us to do more, and do it better. As a result, I grew to hate doing housework, laundry, cooking, and taking care of everyone. I never did it "right." Luckily, I loved learning and sports and piano, and I excelled in school. That helped me avoid some of that Young Women's time-wasting garbage. No, I never completed my--whatever it was--albums of requirements achieved, and records of goals reached (set by the cult in areas that did not interest me) and "books of remembrance".
Most 8-17-year-old kids in today's schools are overloaded already, academically, with homework and pressure to graduate and start college at age 16, and become fluent in a foreign language, etc, and this is a good thing! Kids seem to enjoy their various hobbies and interests, sports and teams, and music and other creative outlets. Kids are doing great! They seem to sense how much they can handle. Then the cult has to step in, and make life Hell, like mine was, until my mother finally let up.
I could do most things well, but did no one thing "perfectly." My TBM mother was always pushing me to be more competitive, and more of an extrovert. These prized Mormon qualities were not in my nature, and, when I failed to change, my self-esteem plummeted. I still feel inferior. I never felt I was "Christ-like". But, I enjoyed my accomplishments, and things were easy for me. I felt that the Mormon church was putting a monkey wrench into my gears! Here was a program I could never, NEVER achieve. I knew in the beginning, that I never could fulfill all those expectations. None of us ever did attain whatever the pinnacle was named in those days. (God is merciful in my forgetting all this crap.) My mother hounded me constantly, to work on my MIA Whatever Award. Mormonism is stacked against the members. It's like those difficult college exams that are time-limited, so that it is impossible to get 100%--but instead of accepting that, the leaders beat you up for not getting 100%, and they make you try again and again.
Sorry to rant, but add to my initial creepy feeling of evil for these poor kids, the overriding feeling of despair and hopelessness, which is at the heart of Mormonism. This PISS program would make me suicidal.
And all of this torture is for MONEY and NUMBERS OF MEMBERS.
"Hey, Boys and Girls! Click this circle button on your cell phone and you will have: INSTANT FRIENDS, who will come running to you!"
(Good Lord, how many of those cute kids in the video could afford their own cell phone?)
"Compete! Win! Never rest!" Is this the way high achievers are raised? NO. I have known, for a lifetime, since childhood, some very successful people. They played at the beach, rode horses in the hills, sat for hours talking, watched the sunsets, read books, played a musical instrument, studied what they were interested in. Most were rugged individuals.
All were self-motivating. Maybe one has to be born that way--I don't know. Each was a unique individual, but they did have a few things in common. They were social, but independent, and were given a lot of freedom by their parents. They chose to fool around with electronics in their father's garage, chose to inspect dead animals, chose to take things apart and put them back together, chose to study the stars.... They were pretty good at sports, but didn't play on teams. They weren't obsessed with winning, or popularity, but they were always friendly. They shared a lot of their discoveries and joy with me, and my life was made better for it. I miss those people, and my childhood. I read about them, now, and read their published professional papers, etc. Three were Mormons, but religion never played a big part in their life, and it still doesn't. They're NOM. The others I knew were agnostic and atheist. Their wise parents didn't push church onto them.
Really, children are just "themselves", and you watch them unfold into beautiful, unique human beings, and you give them lots of opportunities and choices.
Mormons will never get over their one-size-fits-all mindset, will they.