Posted by:
Tevai
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Date: February 16, 2020 08:32PM
"What is moral without religion to identify it for me?"
I think what you might be searching for, with this question, are your values: what do YOU consider to be of preeminent importance in your own life, in the lives of those closest to you (may or may not include family of birth members ;) ), in your community, and in the country of your nationality?
Using my own life as an example, here are some of the things I consider to be most important, both within my own self, and within other people I am close to, or deal closely with:
1) Being authentic. That what is the "me" others see and experience is (at least most of the time) the "me" I actually am. [The waffling is because I grew up in the entertainment industry, and sometimes it is necessary--for your career and for your survival--that a person be less than authentic for the duration of someone else's active career, or the duration of a film production, or whatever.]
2) Making "the world" [the part of the world that I have any influence on] better than it was before I came through. I clean up public restrooms....I throw away my own trash (and often the discarded trash of others which is in public places), ....I engage with unknown babies and toddlers (when I am standing in line at the grocery store or wherever) so their minds will grow....and I do whatever I can, in whatever area of life, to mitigate whatever needs mitigating as I become aware of it. [*]
3) Non-stop education. I have no idea how people continue to live satisfactory, and internally happy, lives after they have, effectively, "stopped learning." This has always been one of the enduring questions in my life, since I cannot abide situations where I am not continuing to learn. (I would go nutso doing things like dishes or whatever if I did not have access to audio learning materials: lectures on You Tube or whatever.)
4) I vote. Every single election, I vote. And I do my homework first, so I am confident that whoever I vote for, or whichever issue I vote on, is going to be the best possible for the welfare of everyone concerned. (I even check out all the endless candidates for judicial offices, to make sure that the judges I vote for or against--it is "Yes" or "No" votes on judicial offices where I live--will be the best for everyone who might be personally affected by those judges in the future.)
A sobering percentage of people I once knew (throughout my years in school, people I worked with in the industry, etc.) are now deceased, and I am VERY much aware that, at some point, every life ends. When my own life ends, I want to know that I lived my life the very best I knew how, and was capable of doing.
These are MY basic values, just off the top of my head.
As you figure out YOUR basic values, I think you will likely discover that "morals" are part of the package you have (probably already) put together--you just haven't thought of them in this way before.
I wish you every good thing!
[*] This guy is the absolute global champion of "making the world a better place":
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jXcoPO76UyAEdited 3 time(s). Last edit at 02/16/2020 11:59PM by Tevai.