Posted by:
Misty(14M)
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Date: November 23, 2020 07:43PM
This is in a handwritten letter that’s going on her pillow tonight. I know that she might be sad, but she won’t shun me. I’m her firstborn child and she relies on me for a lot of shit, like babysitting. Hopefully this is my pathway to getting out of going to seminary and church meetings.
To Mom:
So for a while, I’ve had to keep a really important realization all to myself—and I think that telling someone that I can trust would be a great thing to do.
I don’t believe in a personal God. And I don’t believe that the LDS Church, or even any religion is the right one that will guide me to salvation.
I believe that the only thing I can truly 100% rely on in life is myself, and my gut feeling.
I’ve always tried to make myself feel the Spirit, but I feel that I’ve only truly, 100% felt it was in times that I was expected to, like in baptism or priesthood blessings.
I don’t want to be affiliated with the Church, if possible. If you force me to, I will go to church, but I would rather not—as there’s no benefit in associating myself with something that I do not believe. Especially with seminary, it’s a waste of my time, I’d feel.
And, yes. I have prayed about this, listened to my gut feeling, and looked at the facts that I’ve found—and the facts have held that the Church isn’t true.
Now, I know that you’re probably sad and extremely disappointed.
I am your son. And I know that you love me, no matter what.
So please accept me for what I am.
A son of the world, and most importantly your son. I will ALWAYS conduct myself in a Christlike way regardless of my belief in the Atonement of Christ—because Christ is an amazing example regardless if the scriptures are true or not.
I’m worried that if I were to tell dad he would react badly. I know that it would break his heart, even more than yours probably is now. So, please, somehow help for me to be accepted by him.
Dieter F. Uchtdorf, who you believe is a prophet of God said in the October 2013 general conference in his talk Come, Join with Us:
“It may break our hearts when their journey takes them away from the Church we love and the truth we have found, but we honor their right to worship Almighty God according to the dictates of their own conscience, just as we claim that privilege for ourselves.”
In order to feel most comfortable with myself, I have to journey away from the Church. I have to find my own truth. I have doubted my doubts—or rather tried to. But even doing that did not help me. Even Jesus would respect me. He served all.
So all I ask of you is to accept me for who I am and to respect me.
I still love you, no matter what.
-Misty