Posted by:
adamisfree2006
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Date: June 16, 2021 10:07PM
Been out for 15+ years and just attended my first Mormon wedding (niece's) since being out. It was in Arizona and of course it was hot as hell for those of us standing outside waiting for the grand exit from the temple. Knowing what goes on inside, and that being one of my reasons for leaving, made me chuckle as the other nevermos were thinking they were missing some elaborate ceremony.
Because there were so many non mormons, they held a ring ceremony. Although that was a nice gesture, I found it offensive. The "officiator" was a friend of the grooms. He was very clear that the ring ceremony was simply for show and that the "real ceremony" took place earlier at the temple. He emphasized that he had no powers regarding officiating the ring ceremony. The couple even made funny faces while exchanging rings which was offensive to the nevermo family members who travelled from afar to witness it.
Maybe it is my hypercriticism of the church and my family members who remain in its grips. I have declined to attend all my other niece and nephew weddings in the past for this reason but finally relented. I definitely will not attend any more.
On a good note, my other exmo brother and I took a funny selfie with the temple in the background.