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Date: October 26, 2021 05:34PM
As a single person with a decent-paying professional job, I would not want to shoulder that high of a mortgage payment on my own. I don't think it's a sustainable solution for her to do that. My thinking is that she might consider selling the house, living with her friend until she is employed, and then look into buying a two bedroom condo in her locality, possibly on a 15 year mortgage. A quick consult with an experienced real estate agent might be in order to see if this plan is feasible given her (maybe?) sketchy credit rating.
My mom was also widowed at a young age, and I think one of the biggest mistakes she made was in not downsizing quickly enough to more affordable housing. When she did downsize, she went for a high-end condo, whereas a more affordable condo would have made a lot more sense.
Beyond that, your SIL is *badly* in need of a financial education. She should perhaps look into a personal finance course at her local community college. She also needs to start reading good, solid books on personal finance. When I was young, I started with Syliva Porter's Money Book. Although it's dated, she could probably learn plenty from it, and I'm sure there are lots of updated, good, middle-of-the-road finance books for her to choose from. A simple web search of "best personal finance books" yielded this list:
https://nymag.com/strategist/article/best-personal-finance-books.htmlShe needs to start socking money into savings and investments ASAP. A no-load blended (stocks and bonds) or target date fund (i.e. "Retirement Target 2035") from Vanguard or T. Rowe Price might work for her.
The truth is, if she doesn't educate herself, she might be facing no retirement or a very limited retirement, and worse, she might become prey to those who would take advantage of her financial ignorance.