I never heard that one. I wonder if there is a morning after pill for that.
Hand shaking was almost required at church and many of the parents in church held hands (public display of almost intercourse?). Someone came up with a doozy like that?
No, not wrong. He said that, but also said that "the first time I kissed sister Smith was across the altar." So one of my mission companions used to say, "Yeah--she wasn't 'Sister Smith' until he married her at the altar. He didn't mention anything about her when she wasn't 'Sister Smith.'"
It could be that you just aren't holding them hard and fast enough, or that your hands are too dry. Try wetting your lips first, then hold hands again.
Some even find they have to hold them upside down, or try left handed. That sometimes works.
As a last attempt, Hold On Loosely That may be the ticket.
Thing about students at BYU, they seem to always find a work-around for sexual intercourse. They fancy that oral sex is not wrong, because it's technically not intercourse. "Oral is moral" is the slogan. Many say that if you use a condom, the penis is not actually making contact with the vagina, so technically,... What's not to like?
Then there are the students on the opposite end of the spectrum, the ones who feel that if you use a condom, it's worse than just having sex because it shows you planned to have sex instead of just been accidentally lured into it. It's why the daughter of one of my bishops got pregnant and kicked out of BYU. So the dumb ones get pregnant, and the adventurous ones find the work-around. Weird world. Either way, they all are gambling, because any of them would get kicked out of BYU if they were found out or turned in.
> Then there are the students on the opposite end of > the spectrum, the ones who
say "Fuck getting married" to have sex ......or for any other reason, because they have done with out for so long after abiding by Church edicts that they figure they will just live the rest of their lives doing without.
Then, after vilifying sexual relations for so long, the book of MORmON church leadership has to rush in to condemn those who are not more interested in marriage or sex in any form.
LMAO at how the book of MORmON church poisons the well and then complains about the consequences AS IF they have nothing to do with what has happened.
Believe me. Many BYU students just screw each other. A lot of them are there because it’s the only school the parents would pay for. They aren’t good Mormon single adults. They put on a front and do whatever they want on their own time and hook up with similar people.
I don't recall the hand holding thing, but the concept (if not the expression) of "oral is moral" was certainly a thing. Lots of BJs and WhoWho licking; but since it isn't actually banging, Gawd said "no problem". (sigh) Religion is so stupid. :\
the LDS rules about sex for singles are childish & encourage people to lie & obfuscate, it's almost like this is the conduct that ChurchCo wishes to develop/nurture in adults for later life.
IOW, weasel speak is a Fine Art in Morland.
I don't know that we teach that, I don't think we empathize that
I am sustained as such
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You read my mind Heartless. Some people would really go at it. I used to laugh because it was such a sin to even step foot in the chapel on a Saturday if you were wearing pants but public foreplay was just fine.
I was going to answer after I read the whole thread.
I went with my daughter to GC after she went back to church as she didn't have anyone to go with. I was an apostate at the time. The couple in front of us at the great and spacious building were rubbing backs the whole session.
I don't know but I had a date go totally pear shaped once because I tried to hold her hand, and "hand-holding is only for a very serious relationship". I said sorry and the date continued until the dance was over, but she said no to a second date and would not even look my way in Econ class.
I don't know but last year, thrifting, I picked up, in my size. a new (vintage) pair in light-blue-green. The red pair was too small. Rats! Everybody loves them, and so do I. Great price!
Jeans are rarely worn these days by me. I generally wear work/ duck pants, hiking/ outdoors/ sport pants, short pants, pee jammas, streach pants, lounging/ urban pants... Sometimes with or without underpants. But only a few with buttons. The rest have zippers, openings, or no opening at all, but all are removable.
I like my button flies Otherwise, I don't like flys