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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 04:30PM

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/mormon-mom-sex-worker_n_622a2b9fe4b0d1329e81d448

Mormon Mom comes out as a sex worker on HuffPo and the geriatrics warming their thrones in the COB penthouse are probably sh!t!ng bricks at the moment!

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Posted by: Greyfort ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 04:47PM

She's a little naive if she thinks that the Church wants anything whatsoever to do with opening a dialogue about sexuality. The Church doesn't take kindly to anyone who thinks they can help to push the Church into the modern age.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 06:34PM

I have absolutely no problem with her career choices. I do, however, worry about how her going public will affect her children and their social relationships.

I wish them all the best.

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 07:06PM

Rusty the Clown PRofit will probably call her and tell her he had a visit from an angel with a flaming sword who revealed to him that she should become his super secret side chick.

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Posted by: Gordon B. Stinky ( )
Date: March 18, 2022 10:21AM

I too worry about her kids. If all this is legit, and she's really engaging her kids in TSCC, then they are going to be indoctrinated and likely suffer, and even be upset and angry themselves. What she's doing may not be explicitly against "the rules," but the morg is a cult of conformity, if nothing else, and her behavior clearly violates all the unspoken rules. Given the social implications, from that perspective, she might as well be a prostitute.

Consider: the men all have "porn addictions." She's generating "porn." i.e. she's the problem. She's a "home wrecker," and TSCC is [ostensibly] all about the family. Some women drag their priesthood holders to church in order to have some form of authority to keep them in line, and now there's this "brazen hussy" in their midst. It won't stand!

Sorry for the anachronous slang, but the morg is caught in the 1950s... ;)

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Posted by: Dr. No ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 03:11PM

Greyfort Wrote:
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> She's a little naive if she thinks that the Church
> wants anything whatsoever to do with opening a
> dialogue about sexuality.
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Hmmm . . . d'ya think mebbe Mormonis were secretly behind this?
https://www.theonion.com/texas-bans-consensual-sex-1848631845

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 16, 2022 09:21PM

The Onion?
I doubt it, they’re not nearly that funny.

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Posted by: Kathleen ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 05:15PM

Does she pay her tithing ?

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 05:23PM

She didn't say she was having sex so sex worker isn't what she is. She is the poster child for all the Mormon men who don't cheat on their wives but look at porn.

I know from my brother that porn isn't going to get you exed, disfellowshiped, or discipline. You will get another calling because you obviously have time for it.

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Posted by: scmd1 ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 05:27PM

A penishood holder's consequence for viewing porn often depends upon his bishop and SP.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 12:51PM

I'd love to read about someone excommunicate or even disfellowshipped for porn and masturbation. It would be enlightening if it were a commonality in the exmormon collective experience.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 04:18PM

I can offer two accounts, one from a close friend and the other from a cousin.

The close friend. Her husband was asked by a new bishop about pornography, answered honestly, and was subjected to "probationary disfellowship." I have never heard of such a punishment before, but that's what she said. He lost (or was relieved of) his church assignments and could not take the sacrament anymore, and my friend said he could not give prayers in meetings. I do not know when or if he got his "privileges" back.

My cousin. Already an adult man, married and with children, his not unusual compulsions were reported to his bishop and then stake president. They worked with him for a lengthy period of time, then held a court and excommunicated him. He and his wife came to believe he was evil and lacking in self-control. She divorced him, and he said he deserved what happened to him. His father, who is quite high in the church, agreed.

I was appalled by the whole thing. The man and his family accepted what the church did not only to him but to them as well. And it had been a good marriage. . .

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 11:32PM

"Sex worker" includes the production and sale of photos and videos of a sexual nature, whether solo or with another/others. What she does definitely falls under that rubric.

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 16, 2022 09:33PM

I don’t know what you call someone who pleasures themselves on camera for money, but pretty sure it involves sex, and they’re getting paid, so that’s ‘work’. Sex worker is how she identifies herself. That’s seems to describe her job pretty well, bout more importantly, she’s a mom, and a lot of guys apparently are into that. Especially Mormon guys. Utah is the perennial leader in p0rn subscribers. Despite their thin straight edger veneer of politeness and super morality, Mormons are some of the least ‘moral’ people I know, who proudly sing the praises of a man who had his way with 34 women and teenage girls.
Looking the other way and neither seeing, hearing or speaking evil is a way of life for Mormons.
Keep Sweet.

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 06:31PM

She’ll probably get X’d just for exposing her porn shoulders and having the nerve to brag about it.

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Posted by: thedesertrat1 ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 07:15PM

After having read this my sentiment is this. It is your life. if that is what you need and want to do more power to you.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/12/2022 10:07AM by Tevai.

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Posted by: caffiend ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 07:41PM


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Posted by: Hedning ( )
Date: March 11, 2022 11:06PM

I don't think she really understands Mormonism at all.

I also don't think she understands the term "sex worker".

Another victim of selling oneself on the internet to satisfy ego issues. Mormon Exhibitionist might be a better title.

The term "Airhead" comes to mind, but that's not acceptable in the modern internet age.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 01:23AM

I don’t know about her not understanding Mormonism. She certainly speaks fluent Mormonese, and has that sound of cheerfully smug self-righteousness that I’ve seen in Mormons whose business practices ( think MLM) fall somewhere between misdemeanor and felony. So she fits right in, except her business practices sound pretty legal.

And yes, that would meet the definition of sex worker. There was a woman in SLC who did a TEDx talk about 4 or 5 years ago about being a sex worker, in the more traditional sense, for you purists. She was LDS and married. She was on a panel discussion about 6 months later, talking about her work/customers, and incidentally talking about how terrifying it was giving that talk at Kingsbury Hall at the UofU. She has marched in several SLC Pride parades, and advocates for legal protections and unionization for sex workers. I think City Weekly did a story on her.

And I have mentioned here before my fave exMo, Natacha Rambova (Wikipedia her), not a sex worker per se, but a very colorful character for 1900s Utah.

So Ms HuffPo is neither the first, nor unique in coming out.

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Posted by: Hedning ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 03:09AM

Yeah, I don't know.

Many years ago when I was missionary in Europe, we had an "investigator" who was a sort of a famous social advocate for sex workers. She went to great lengths to explain the social dynamics of women who get involved with the business. Phone sex was just becoming a thing and she was adamant that real "working girls" were not strippers or phone actors. YMMV. The internet then was only the domain of university scientists and military operatives.

We invited her to attend church and one visit and the law of chastity discussion was enough to quench her interest. I sometimes thought she just enjoyed blowing the minds of us innocent Mormon boys.

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Posted by: Gordon B. Stinky ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 12:43AM

Couple thoughts...

I don’t have any problem with what she’s doing. But, man, “exploring my sexuality” is quite the euphemism. I’d say “selling my sexuality” is a better fit.

And, she likes being Mormon. What? Being Mormon is about conformity, and this is NOT it.

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 04:24AM

As long as she pays tithing on that money, it's okay.

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Posted by: Kathleen ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 12:59AM

You guys think this is real ?

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Posted by: caffiend ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 01:11AM


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Posted by: pollythinks ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 06:04PM

She sounds like a shovinest, as she takes such pride in herself for what she does for a living. Too each his or her own? No, imo, this is far beyond that, as she is so proud of herself and what others might think about her.

I think (again) that she is, simply stated, looking for others to notice her, and hoping they will pass judgment on her so she can glote more over her self. To me, she is a sad mess--espcially in that she is still raising her children. Moreover, it appears that they are her least concern. :-(

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 06:18PM

Teacher in primary Sunday School, “So Karen, what does your Mommy do for a living?”
“Oh she’s a sex worker. She doesn’t have sex with strangers, she just masturbates on camera so total strangers all over the world can maturbate along with her! And it’s a win-win situation, Mommy gets paid to get her rocks off, by all the horny Incels watching her spank her self until she squirts, and she brings home a mother load of cash! It’s what I wanna do when I grow up! Don’t you boys want to masturbate while you watch me masturbate when we all grow up to be a bunch of professional jerkoffs?”



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 03/13/2022 02:49PM by schrodingerscat.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 12:53PM

You put way too much thought into that response.

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 04:47PM

Elder Berry Wrote:
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> You put way too much thought into that response.


You’re right. The juice wasn’t worth the squeeze.

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Posted by: Subeamnotlogedin ( )
Date: March 12, 2022 11:01PM

Do you keep the law of chastity? Not sure how she will answer to that. The lds church does not allow masturbation. This somehow makes me smile thinking of how many members might report her to the bishop and stake president. The stake president might give her an ultimatum to either stop her onlyfan account or loose her temple recommend? Income or church? To me this is a publicity stunt to get more followers and earn more money. I do wish her all the best.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 12:54PM

The law of chastity didn't mention either porn or masturbation.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: March 13, 2022 05:28AM

She’s good at marketing. This is a publicity stunt to get attention. It will generate a huge amount of traffic her way.

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Posted by: Greyfort ( )
Date: March 13, 2022 12:07PM

Yes, if she seriously cared about her Church membership, she never would have gone public.

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Posted by: Subeamnotlogedin ( )
Date: March 16, 2022 10:00PM

Greyfort Wrote:
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> Yes, if she seriously cared about her Church
> membership, she never would have gone public.

I think she wants to make her excommunication public to make money with it.

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Posted by: thedesertrat1 ( )
Date: March 13, 2022 02:13PM

If the adult woman involved wishes to rent certain parts of her body for recreational use that should be between her and the renter.
the absolute moralist(a person who not being able to control their own life seeks to control everyone elses) wishes to condem this action.
As long as she does not attempt to forcible interfere with my right to choose I DON'T CARE WHAT SHE DOES!!!
I am not at this time a prospective renter!

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Posted by: thedesertrat1 ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 05:56AM

Unless she is spreading her legs for insertion of male reproductive organs she is not truly a sex worker.
This is so typical of Mormon conceptuality. She is JOKE



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/15/2022 05:56AM by thedesertrat1.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: March 16, 2022 11:24PM

How nice that you have the one true definition of sex worker.

So people engaged in phone sex, or strippers, or oral sex, or manual sex or homosexual sex are not sex workers. Got it.

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Posted by: Happy_Heretic ( )
Date: March 15, 2022 09:02AM

Oh she is SOOOOO gonna be excommunicated. Slam dunk. If she is NOT excommunicated then there is a definite sea change happening.


HH =)

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