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Date: June 03, 2022 07:56PM
I wanted to write my general conclusion about the Under the Banner of Heaven book and TV show that came out (no spoilers). Go watch the TV show if you haven't.
For context, I've been officially out of the church for about a decade, but have been mostly inactive for 20. I left mostly for the church's views about LGBT issues, gender beliefs, and the culty temple. My faith crumbled quite quickly after the temple and just getting an education in general. I didn't learn about the history until after I was already out of the church. It surprised me, but I never really got angry or emotional about it.
After reading the book, watching the show, it made me feel like I was back in that place when I first quit believing. I've come to realize that I still have never really DEALT with my emotions on leaving the church. Its not that I wasn't angry, its more that I haven't LET myself be angry or emotional about it. I just kind of left, said I'm not mormon and don't believe in god anymore, but I've never seemed to work through what I actually do believe and think.
So the story has kind of opened my eyes and I'm finally ready to work through it rather than brush it aside. I got a book on Amazon about leaving religion and the trauma it brings to help me out. I hope eventually I can undo the damage the church did to me (well, first I have to learn WHAT damage it did.)
Thanks for reading this if you did. It was very rambly and non-specific. :)