Posted by:
Eric K
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Date: July 27, 2022 10:27AM
Perhaps the subject should be changed to 'normal friendships'. A friend was scheduled to come to my home to work on a bass clarinet duet which we were going to perform together this fall. He did not show up. His wife called and said he had a massive stroke. It has been 3 weeks since the stroke. I called him yesterday. He is still in rehab. He is a talented professional musician having played in the New York Philharmonic, many Broadway plays and all over Europe.
In our phone call he mentioned he many never be able to play the clarinet again. He is only 55. He said he was thinking of me and wants to compose an original piece for me to play if I am willing. When he said that, I started tear up. He is struggling to regain his life and yet he is thinking of others. I was really touched.
My friendships, or more accurately acquaintances, in the Mormon church were superficial in comparison to an authentic life. I feel sorry for active Mormons whose primary social contacts are fellow Mormons and never or rarely experience such a level of intimacy.