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Posted by: messygoop ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 05:35PM

I know "Big Deal" but hey this is the church that can't have proper meetings without formal opening and closing prayers.

So now there are no opening prayers for the alternating Sunday School-Primary or combined RS-PH meetings.

And the reason read from the pulpit: We are trying to avoid too many vane repetitions used in prayer.

And another caveat: Only members who are serving in church leadership callings are called upon to offer a closing prayer.

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Posted by: messygoop ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 05:41PM

As a young man

I would get called to open/close youth Sunday School

Every other month I was called on to open General PH meeting

I would open/close aaronic priesthood quorum mtgs

As a priest, I said a lot of those SM prayers for bread/water.

Scouts, YM activities (I didn't pray at seminary bc I didn't attend).

Way too much praying.

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Posted by: CrispingPin ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 05:44PM

Now they’re worried about vain repetitions? Just wait until the priest blessing the sacrament inadvertently says the slightest variation to the prayer.

In the temple, will there be any alteration to “oh God, hear the words of my mouth”?

Will young children still be allowed to mispronounce “nourish and strengthen our bodies” while praying over a meal?

Mormon prayers are nothing but vain repetitions.

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Posted by: Roy G Biv ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 07:04PM

>> Mormon prayers are nothing but vain repetitions. <<

This was every Monday for me as a kid....

- Family prayer (morning)
- Personal prayer (morning)
- Food prayer (breakfast)
- Food prayer (lunch)
- Food prayer (dinner)
- FHE opening prayer
- FHE closing prayer
- Family Prayer (evening)
- Personal prayer (evening)

Followed by prayer at Primary/ MIA, Scouts, Saturday meetings, Sunday meetings, before traveling, etc.

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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 07:36PM

Me too. I suppose we should be glad we didn't have to get on the ground with our butts in the air facing SLC.

The church using vain repitition as a reason is too rich. You can't make this stuff up.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 09:00PM

I remember first studying the indoctrination and re-education systems of communist countries long ago. As I read and listened, particularly about how China managed things during the Cultural Revolution, it all sounded so very familiar. Then later came Nazi Germany and its Hitler Youth, other civic associations, and thought police.

Mormonism shares more characteristics with totalitarian political movements than with theocentric faiths that emphasize individual morality and responsibility.

Which is why the notion that young people--oops, I mean young men--are unwilling to fulfill their divine duty to go on missions has the Q15 changing their adult diapers more frequently than in the past.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 04:25AM

I spent part of my childhood in British Hong Kong. I knew plenty of people who lost relatives to Mao’s cultural revolution. I remember being up at the Chinese border and just the sight of the ChiCom guards triggered bad memories and terror in people.

There’s a certain amount of conformity pushed in the LDS Church but it’s also there in the military and the schools I went to.

It’s a bit silly comparing the LDS church to communist China or Nazi Germany. The LDS Church is annoying and yeah your family is probably going to be upset if you don’t want to be in it anymore but it’s no different in a orthodox Jewish home or any other home where religion is a big part of the family heritage.

The LDS Church hasn’t killed millions of people, they don’t lock you behind a wall or shoot you if you try and leave.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 05:55AM

Rubicon Wrote:
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> I spent part of my childhood in British Hong Kong.
> I knew plenty of people who lost relatives to
> Mao’s cultural revolution. I remember being up
> at the Chinese border and just the sight of the
> ChiCom guards triggered bad memories and terror in
> people.

Yes, that makes sense.


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> There’s a certain amount of conformity pushed in
> the LDS Church but it’s also there in the
> military and the schools I went to.

There is a difference in technique and extent. The Mormon church, by contrast with the "corporate culture" of the military, uses programmed self-criticism, periodic sexual interrogations, extreme guilt, control of and by family, mandatory cult training on missions, repetitive indoctrination from the age of 1.5 upward for the rest of your life. Those tactics bear more resemblance to extreme political cults than to the armed forces.


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> It’s a bit silly comparing the LDS church to
> communist China or Nazi Germany. The LDS Church is
> annoying and yeah your family is probably going to
> be upset if you don’t want to be in it anymore
> but it’s no different in a orthodox Jewish home
> or any other home where religion is a big part of
> the family heritage.

I disagree. The fact that there are other cults masquerading as religions does not mean the LDS church isn't a cult masquerading as religion. What you have done is define the standard, which you call "religion," by reference to the most extreme forms of western faiths and thereby imply that Mormonism isn't unique. But doesn't that vindicate my position? Put simply, you can only put Mormonism in the "normal" category if you define the extreme as normal.


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> The LDS Church hasn’t killed millions of people,
> they don’t lock you behind a wall or shoot you
> if you try and leave.

You're missing the point. The aspect of totalitarianism that I am comparing to Mormonism has from start to finish been their similar methods of indoctrination and mind control. I have not attempted any comparison of their respective body counts.

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Posted by: blindguy ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 10:55PM

"Mormon prayers are nothing but vain repetitions."

So are all prayers of all organized religions. My mom passed away two Saturdays ago, and we held the funeral Mass at the chapel at the Jesuit high school I graduated from. Before the Mass, one of my first cousins recited the Prayers of the Rosary. This involves counting each bead on a Rosary and saying one Lord's prayer followed by (I think) four "Holy Mary, Mother of God" prayers followed by a "Glory" prayer. And you had to do the entire thing word-for-word for each of the (I think it's) twelve beads on the Rosary.

We all did get a laugh, though, as said cousin was using a tablet to keep his place with the prayers--and the cursor kept moving out of his control. So much for divine guidance!

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 01:20AM

Oh blind guy. I'm so sorry to read about your mom.

Having a laugh at a funeral is a gift - a healing moment.

Take care, bg.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/31/2022 01:22AM by Nightingale.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 01:25AM

I hope you and your family are doing okay, blindguy. These things can be so very difficult.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 06:13AM

I'm sorry that you lost your mom, Blindguy. I go to the occasional Catholic funeral, and it's all I can do to get through the parts of it that are not personalized to the deceased.

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Posted by: blindguy ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 08:36AM

Thank you all for the condolences. The funeral was held a week ago Monday with the burial the following day. We're still muddling our way through the financial aspects (the funeral cost us over $11,000, though the company handling it for us did a great job.)

My mom's greatest contribution to me? That Jesuit high school where the funeral Mass was held. I was the first totally blind person to attend, followed by my younger brother two years later. It was my mom's persistence that got us in there and her willingness to read books to us not available to us in braille, help us with our homework, especially the math, and her willingness to drive us to extracurricular activities that allowed both of us to thrive and succeed there. On that helping us with our math homework--my mom was a math whiz in both high school and college. My younger sighted sister has said (and I agree with her) that had she been born during a more enlightened time, my mom probably would have gotten a very high-paying job with her math background; but that's not how it turned out.

Anyway, thanks again to all of you for your condolences.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 12:02PM

Sounds like she was a real saint. I'm envious. Sorry for the loss.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 02:36PM

Wow. I agree with EB.

Would that we all had parents like your mother!

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Posted by: Subeamnotlogedin ( )
Date: September 04, 2022 02:35PM

Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing about your mom how good she was in math.

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 06:01PM

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 06:14PM

Russ got new batteries & ink

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Posted by: shortbobgirl ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 06:23PM

One advantage to a church with liturgy, the prayers on in the book and no one needs to think on their feet.

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 06:55PM

Maybe Russ should ask Joseph if he should whitewash the scriptures he said he got straight from God, to remove the blatant racism and white supremacy, but apparently that’s not near as important as correcting the vain repetition of prayers that’s been going on for nearly 200yrs.

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Posted by: cl2notloggedin ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 08:00PM

I refused to pray in public. I had to as a child, but we only had nighttime prayers and dinner prayers. Breakfast was scattered. I think my dad stopped for coffee and something on the way to teach high school. My brothers had cold cereal and waffles. I didn't eat breakfast.

We didn't do a hell of a lot of praying. I did take note that the prayers I heard in the family were more sincere and not so scripted as the ones at church. I had the bishop in the first ward we were in after we got married assign me to practice praying. I continued to say no. I never prayed in meetings after I turned 18.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 09:38PM

Finally, LDS Inc is doing something rational.

I had heard that BYU used to open all classes with prayer, because, you know, everything should be taught with the spirit.

I don't know when that tradition was changed, but I don't think it was too many years before I showed up there in the 1960s. Trying to figure something useful to put in a prayer to open a class on statistical sampling was probably difficult, and most people just spouted 2 or 3 cliches, inJebusnameamen.

Now they only open religion classes with prayer, and as far as I know, BYU never closed classes with prayer. I don't know how we ever managed to get back to our apartments in peace and safety.

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Posted by: BoydKKK ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 11:12PM

Melchizidek was used for Priesthood to avoid saying "son of God" too much.
Now usingCofJCfLDS instead of Mormon makes the name way more shopworn.

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 11:32PM

Nothing against Mormons, but it scares me to think I was once that stupid.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: August 29, 2022 11:51PM

It comes across like you’re saying, “Nothing against stupid mormons, but . . .”

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 01:38AM

But they are endearing in a Lloyd Christmas kind of way.

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Posted by: Heartless ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 03:50AM

So much for praying without ceasing or praying in all things.

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Posted by: Jethro ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 08:54AM

When I go to TBM inlaws and we go out for dinner, we must say blessing on food while standing in living room of there house, drives me insane.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 10:15AM

"And please bless all the food we will eat this week, wherever it may be."

There's gotta be a way to make this whole process more efficient.

Of course I always thought baptizing someone by proxy for and in behalf of everyone who has died would save a whole bunch of busywork.

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Posted by: [|] ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 01:13AM

>"And please bless all the food we will eat this week, wherever it may be."

Think bigger! Why stop at a week?
At breakfast on New Year's Day bless all of the food we will eat this year.

Or...
At every baby blessing include "bless all of the food and drink this person will ever consume that it may nourish and strengthen their body, and help them to grow up strong and stalwart in the gospel"

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Posted by: moehoward ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 11:34AM

I can still hear "may this strengthen and nourish our bodies..."

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Posted by: SEcular Priest ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 01:44PM

Soon we will not recognize the Church I grew up in. Its nice to know that if I am not in a leadership position my prayers are useless!!!!

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Posted by: InCognito2 ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 03:22PM

SOON????? How about a month of Sundays ago.

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Posted by: Roy G Biv ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 03:48PM

>> And the reason read from the pulpit: We are trying to avoid too many vane repetitions used in prayer. <<

So they don't say as many prayers? Why didn't they just stop the vane repetitions? This could have been a correlation victory!

From the desk of Rusticle M. Nelson:

In an effort to remove vane repetition in prayer, we are implementing the following 'revelation" effective immediately.

"We are thankful for a prophet to lead and guide us" will only be used on the odd days of the month, except in a leap year in which its the even days of the month, or in times famine.

"Strengthen and nourish our bodies" will only be used for breakfast because its the most important meal of the day, and on fast Sundays because you need nourishment after starving for the lord.

"We ask that you bless us" will only be used if you make more than $250,000 a year, because if you have money, you should be blessed and if you don't you need to be tested.

"We ask that you keep us safe while traveling" will only be used for trips within a few miles from your home because that's where most car accidents happen, and you're farther than that you can always call AAA.

"We ask that you soften the hearts of those that have rejected the gospel" will be used only once for any one person. After that, we'll send the missionaries over to wear them down and harass them until they come back. If after several visits their hearts aren't sufficiently soft, you can ask again and we'll repeat the process....I mean the lords work.

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Posted by: cl2notloggedin ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 04:38PM


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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 30, 2022 08:57PM

I've never understood the necessity of prayer. I understand chanting, mantras, making sounds as a spiritual activity but not prayer.

This seems like a good direction. For me prayer was like reading a book out loud to for someone. If you are just doing it for yourself you don't need a formula, simile sounds, but just a feeling to connect to whatever it is you worship and you're thoughts. Prayer is either a breakdown appealing to God or pretensions to communication with a being that knows you so well God knows what you will do before you. Pretty petty to require outward signs of piety.

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Posted by: heartbroken ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 03:56PM

I think this will backfire. Of all the changes that are desperately needed in the Mormon church, Nelson announces that some opening prayers will be eliminated because of vain repetition? Will it make members question how many other of the myriad prayers uttered throughout the day are also vain repetitions? Maybe church every Sunday is a vain repetition.

It's also peculiar that only those in leadership positions will be called on to offer the closing prayer. What's that all about?

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Posted by: messygoop ( )
Date: August 31, 2022 05:05PM

heartbroken Wrote:
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> It's also peculiar that only those in leadership
> positions will be called on to offer the closing
> prayer. What's that all about?

I just found out about this a couple days ago. Awhile back, my Mom was asked to close the RS meeting. This is common practice so members don't feel ambushed or startled, also a member can politely decline.

At the end of the meeting, she stood up in preparation of offering a closing a closing prayer and the sister in charge called upon the RS president to close the meeting. It was embarrassing for her. Since then she has noticed that only current leaders or former leaders are the ones praying.

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