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Date: March 20, 2023 10:41AM
I resigned months ago. I received the whole confirmation after too!
Before and during, I told a member I knew and really liked THREE times that she was welcome to invite us out to dinner, but that she wouldn't be seeing me at church. I said this because she kept repeatedly inviting me.
Twice she ignored this..(maybe because I didn't use the word resigned?). Maybe I sound wimpy but it kind of hurt me being shown how little respect she had for my boundaries and wishes! What it really did was show me she liked me as a member not as a person. I finally unfriended her and took her out of my phone understandably.
Yesterday she contacted me AGAIN inviting me to a church event and I may have mildly told her off.
Is this commonplace? I can't believe it's still happening. I really don't appreciate the disrespect.
I'm usually pretty good at deciphering the culty members from the cool ones but it was a fail with this lady!