Posted by:
Hidinginplainsight
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Date: May 27, 2023 12:36PM
For the past several years I've had someone in my life who is a member. Somewhere along the line I've noticed how every exchange and get together we've had has been on this person's terms. Anytime, I reached out to connect I was met with the standoffish coldness that I could just feel in every cell of my body. It was hurtful.
I discussed I was leaving and this person told me they're still my friend regardless..but have they ever been? Not to my standards.
Maybe this sounds silly but I feel so deeply that at least part of our "friendship" was this person being driven by some obligation to keep an eye on me spiritually speaking. It was almost like they felt bad for me or believed themselves to be above me! Who knows why, maybe bc I was the only member in my family.
I feel so resentful and regretful that I once admired this person and adored them like a brother. I wish we'd never have met. I can't believe I allowed for this.
Anonymous because I'm feeling some shame. Even though I know everyone makes mistakes, I feel I betrayed myself. I allowed it to go on for so long because I spoke so highly of this person to everyone in my life, and I couldn't bear to be wrong.
The crazy thing is my first impression was that I didn't want to meet this person, yet clearly I met them anyway. I failed myself deeply by casting my own heart heart aside for the first of many times.