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Sinandi
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Date: February 24, 2024 05:19AM
I was a student of Tom's 50 years ago, shortly after his return from an extended study period at the Vatican, and became close to him and his family. Because I kicked against the pricks who ran dress code enforcement in the BYU administration, he would advise me when I needed to cut my hair and, in fact, would have me come to the house (escorted by him in his small and clunky car that seemed too small for his long limbs and great height) where he would do the honors with his kids running around and Rosemary, his lovely wife, preparing dinner to which I was welcomed after the shearing. I loved the man and still do. His arrogance was apparent, but I suppose I had a similar affliction. He did not suffer fools gladly, but students with promise he showered with attention. The incident at BYU that led to his shunning might have been related to his objection to a particular Latin teacher (who was concurrently working on a PhD in classics at University of Utah) that he thought unqualified, but I can't say for sure.
Tom was charismatic in the classroom, so much so that he changed the course of my own academic career and the lives and careers of many others. He would often arrive late and begin talking even as he strode towards the blackboard. He would sometimes ponder over questions asked of him, or ideas that occurred to him, by pacing back and forth, a nubby piece of chalk in his hand, until suddenly he would freeze in his tracks, smile as an answer dawned, then suddenly throw the chalk into a wastebasket across the room. This was his reaction to the lightbulb going off.
In later years, whenever I passed through Provo, I would visit him in his semi-exilic office where he would share his latest work on the Didymus the Blind fragment or the Venerable Bede, another of his interests and areas of expertise. I always wondered what kept him in Provo, in the Mormon fold, and at BYU. It still escapes me. His fall from grace was apparent, but he wouldn't explain it or even admit it, but would brush my questions off lightly as nothing worth discussing. The Classics department at BYU for decades seethed with mutual envy and toxic disrespect. Tom probably contributed to it but in the end was himself a fatality.
The note by "Didymus" that speaks of a divorce and second, wealthy wife seems to be mistaken. According to Rosemary's obituary she died in 2008 while she and Tom were serving a "family history" mission in Tahiti (Tom's French was perfect). Whether he married again after his bereavement at the age of 68 I don't know. He seems to be living now in Saint George at the age of 84. I hope his health has held and his wit. The size of the house makes me think he might have one of his 7 children living with him with a brood of grandkids. Best to him.
For Rosemary's obituary:
https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/deseretnews/name/rosemary-mackay-obituary?id=28656770