Posted by:
othersteve
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Date: April 23, 2011 12:56PM
I just got a newsletter from my son's school that reminded me what a strange corner of the world we live in (Utah County). In it was an announcement for the upcoming prom. Right after the phrase "dress is formal", and in italicized letters to offset it from the rest of the notice, came these sentences:
"Please make sure your Prom attire is modest – no sleeveless dresses, etc. If you have questions about appropriate Prom attire, please see Mr. XXX or Ms. YYY."
In whose mind, other than those conditioned by the cult, would wearing a dress that allowed your arms to be seen be considered immodest? In the entire rest of the world, ALL prom dresses are sleeveless. In fact, I googled "prom dress" and could not find ANY with sleeves. And that includes those from Dillards, etc. So, basically they're telling the female students in that school that they can't do anything approaching normal, and that they're bad if they even want to try to be fashionable. What kind of a message is that? You might expect that sort of skewed sense of modesty coming from a church that is run by grumpy old men like Monson and Packard, but you don't expect to see it in more public places, like schools. I know I should expect this where I live, but I was still surprised to read it.
I don't think my son is even going to prom, and I my daughter is in college now and hopefully beyond this stuff, so this isn't really my battle to fight. Just thought I'd come here and blow off a little steam.