Posted by:
SusieQ#1
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Date: May 02, 2011 09:05PM
since I left the LDS Church. I have never heard anything like it. It's totally inappropriate.
Are these people completely incapable of living their own
11th Article of Faith? Are they that daft?
The Articles of Faith - #11:
We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may.
These foolish, foolish people are completely out of compliance with what their own faith teaches.
I hope you know that nothing they said in their ridiculous, manipulative, outrageous, psychological, bully attack is even remotely true!
It's angry and hateful, not an ounce of love in any of them.
What they have done is the worse case of psychological and emotional abuse I have ever heard of.
If there was anything you could do, legally, you need to do it.
These people are dangerous.
Maybe it's time to cut them off. No phone calls, no emails, (block their phone numbers, and their emails.)
The only response from you is to tell them to live their 11th Article of Faith, including your husband.
It's time to let them know that you will have no contact with any of them until they can solemnly promise to live the 11th Article of Faith, and apologize for the psychological, manipulative abuse and attack and withholding their love and acceptance.
If they can't love you unless you comply with their demands, you do not need these people in your life.
If it were me, I'd find a counselor and an attorney ASAP.
I hope there is some legal action you can take.
You are a 40 year old woman who has taken her power back. Now it's time to stand up and own it! What they have said and done is so abominable I can't imagine what it was like being put through that. There is nothing I know of in the LDS Church teachings that would condone such behavior.
I am including some quotes from the LDS leaders that clearly do not condone your family for what they have done. Just the opposite. In fact, they are incurring the wrath of their own apostles and leaders by their behavior. They are in great error!
From a post by Deconstructor:
"As I have said before, we must not be clannish. We must never adopt a holier-than-thou attitude. We must not be self-righteous. We must be magnanimous, and open, and friendly. We can keep our faith. We can practice our religion. We can cherish our method or worship without being offensive to others. I take this occasion to plead for a spirit of tolerance and neighborliness, of friendship and love toward those of other faiths."
- President Gordon B. Hinckley, July 2001
And again in the last General Conference...
"We cannot be arrogant. We cannot be self-righteous. The very situation in which the Lord has placed us requires that we be humble as the beneficiaries of His direction. While we cannot agree with others on certain matters, we must never be disagreeable. We must always be friendly, soft-spoken, neighborly, and understanding."
- President Gordon B. Hinckley, Fall 2003 General Conference, Sunday Morning Session
Another living Apostle of the church has condemned bothering those who do not agree with Mormonism:
"That instruction continues today to be part of the teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. In enumerating the key doctrines of the restored Church, Joseph Smith said, while "we claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience," we also "allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may" (A of F 1:11)."
"That is what Jesus taught His disciples - including 'a certain lawyer' - through the parable of the good Samaritan. And that is what He is teaching us today through living prophets and apostles. Love one another. Be kind to one another despite our deepest differences. Treat one another with respect..'"
- Apostle M. Russell Ballard, "Doctrine of Inclusion," Ensign, Nov. 2001, 35
No faithful Mormon should ever harass or contend with former members or people of other faiths:
"He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me [saith the Lord], but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another. Behold, this is not my doctrine, to stir up the hearts of men with anger, one against another; but this is my doctrine, that such things should be done away." (3 Ne. 11:29-30.)
"With that call comes the commitment to emulate the patterns of the Prince of Peace. That goal is shared by worthy servants of the Master, who would not speak ill of others nor provoke contention over teachings declared by ancient or living prophets. Certainly no faithful follower of God would promote any cause even remotely related to religion if rooted in controversy, because contention is not of the Lord."
"To begin, show compassionate concern for others. Control the tongue, the pen, and the word processor. Whenever tempted to dispute, remember this proverb: "He that is void of wisdom despiseth his neighbour: but a man of understanding holdeth his peace." (Prov. 11:12; see also Prov. 17:28.)"
"Bridle the passion to speak or write contentiously for personal gain or glory. The Apostle Paul thus counseled the Philippians, "Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves." (Philip. 2:3.)
- Apostle Russell M. Nelson, "The Canker of Contention," Ensign, May 1989, Page 68