Posted by:
freeasabird
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Date: May 12, 2011 10:58AM
Yesterday my daughter asked, "If we were still mormons and I decided I didn't believe in the mormon church, would you have let me choose not to go to church?"
I gave her an honest answer. "No, I would've made you go to church with the family until you were an adult, and I would let you know that I was disappointed that you didn't believe. And when you became an adult and still didn't believe I would again state my disappointment." Then I explained to her about brainwashing.
The look on her face when I said I would've made her go anyway was one of shock, and maybe a bit scared at the thought. You see now, I teach her to be open minded and believing in what feels right in her heart. She knows that if she decided to start going to whatever church I would let it be her decision.
It's so strange to me how my way of thinking is SO VERY different now that I'm out of TSCC. So VERY SCARY how I could buy into something so obviously controlling for so much of my life.
GLAD TO BE OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!