Posted by:
nomomomo
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Date: May 14, 2011 08:20PM
Thanks for all the sage advice!! When I went back downstairs from posting, I was going to just ignore it, I had already told him to go to his room, which he refused, so that is why I had to walk away.
So he was trying to cook his crepes and he saw me and was almost in tears and said, mom, i'm sorry. I was angry that you were bugging me about my teeth and it makes me feel bad, but I'm sorry for saying that.
And then we talked about it, why I bug him, and how come he takes it so personally.
Still, he has never said that and in fact gets mad at me when I say something negative about my body or something.
I would like to think his dad will say something to him tonight, he is going to his place, which i at first said no, but I didn't realy want him home and he does need to spend time with dad.
His dad the past few years does not treat me well, and I do often see tha in my son in some ways, but never the ugly thing.
I would love to smack him, but he is taller, bigger, and stronger than me. I am not sure what I would have done had he not apologized.
He told me his is brushing his teeth more, though I haven't seen it. He would even wet his toothbrush so I would think he had done it........Well, he has to get braces, so if he has cavities, which he has never had an issue with, then maybe he will get it, except we get to pay for it.
He loves girls, but right now is single, maybe that's why. He did take a shower to go to dads they had worked in the yard, so maybe he is getting it.
Sigh......