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stormy's one and only
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Date: May 17, 2011 01:01AM
There are no boundaries in my Mom's realm of perception. There is nothing that she can't do any time she feels like it. She isn't hearing a thing we tell her or she is and she's ignoring it. No boundaries, so she feels she can ignore..
Case in point. She falled storm's office, she wasn't available to take her call. So she left the following message with the receptionist. Tell Stormy we are all coming to Matt's First Holy Communion. All of us means her, possibly my Dad, my brother, his wife and two daughters, my sister, her husband and their three children, two girls and a boy. Tell her we're all coming, this after we discussed this wasn't acceptable.
WTH is going through her mind? Storm called me to tell me the latest development. She had already called Mom and told her by all means come out. Like she had a choice, Mom had already booked everyone's flights and made hotel reservations.
Then she asked her why is this important to you? You certainly don't believe in the Catholic communion do you? Well no was her answer. But I want to know and understand it since it is my grandson doing this. Storm countered with, the grandson you have ignored since he was born because he wasn't blessed and raised in the LDS church? The second class citizen since he doesn't have the true church in his life? The same grandson who never received as much as a birthday card from you for the above reasons ever? The son of a woman not worthy of your son because she wasn't Mormon and would never convert? The same young woman you called a Catholic whore?
Then when my Mom stopped sputtering, storm said. I have changed my mind, you are not coming for Matt's First Holy Communion. It's a special day in his life and I won't let you sit there with a sour smug look on your face. Thinking look at these foolish Catholics doing this when they could know the true church. The rest of the family can come but not you.
For far too long, I have been silent while you blasted Jake and myself. It's over as of now. Jake and I told you what the rules are. Obviously our wishes mean nothing to you so yours mean nothing to me or Jake.
Your son will be confirmed in the Catholic Church within a month. We will let you know when so you can come if you wish. We will decide on our wedding date and will definitely invite all of you. But remember this, if you choose not to come this time, we will do what you did..cut you off from our lives.
Now please call Jake so he can confirm everything I have just told you and by the way..never call me at my office about anything of a personal nature unless someone is dying.
OMG! I got an earful when she called. Storm was rude, offensive, uncaring, mean spirited and on and on. I said, that's how you have treated her for years. I'm surprised she waited this long.
Do you want me at Matt's Communion? I told no not really. Because if she wrecked the day for any of us, I would never forgive her.
By this time I became a spokesman for Satan. I didn't know what I was saying. How could I do this to her? She always had my best interests at heart. Bull shit was my response. I said, I've had enough I'm hanging up now and I will call you when I'm ready to and don't call me period.
Oh, and it's customary to send a grandchild a First Communion gift. A child's Catholic Bible would be appropriate as would a book about Saints. With that I hung up.
Will she get it this time? How many times will this scene be played out until it finally sinks in? I'm losing patience with her and storm, well to her credit she didn't use any bad language.
Still shaking my head
Jake