Posted by:
Ned314
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Date: May 22, 2011 01:21AM
Hi! I'm Denis and well long story short, I'm 15 years old and so far I've been 'going out' with the girl of my dreams for about half a year... Things were normal at first, but then her mom pulled her out to get home schooled and now things are just horribly complicated. (Aforemention: Our relationship isn't a Mormon acceptable relationship [we do kiss whenever we can, passionate kissing as well, petting, etc], but when it comes to anything else she is a Super Mormon) I barely ever get to see her. I think, in the last 5 months that she's been out of school I've only gotten to see her about 5 or 6 times. And that's out of 5 months. I don't really know if her parents hate me or not, and the only 2 times I've ever been over they seem to like me, but then again I really have no clue what's going on in their minds. I've only gotten to spend time with her on two occasions; movies and church events. I've only gotten to go on movies with her twice, and they were both practically big friends hangouts (can't go anywhere without another group of people apparently...) And then I've only gotten to go to about 2 stake dances (those things are horrible.... crappy music, obnoxious people everywhere, and awkward snowballs..) and one hike. So yeah, about 5 times I've gotten to see my girlfriend. Thing is, I try to find ways to see her every day! It just doesn't happen, and for a girl who I've been with for half a year and bought a ring for, she seems more accepting of never seeing me. I just don't know what to do. She keeps saying that she doesn't have any control over her schedule, but she never really tries to see me. She blames it on her mom not letting her do anything with me... but I don't believe that. It really seems more likely that she just doesn't ask her mom. That's beside the point. Well, I have no plans of converting (I really don't like the Mormon Church's stand on well... anything really.) So aside from never getting to see her (even though I'm absolutely in love with her...), always having to hang out with her friends when I'm with her (which is like once a month if I'm lucky), getting into constant fights with her because of how one sided this whole relationship is and how I'm trying my butt of to be with her and she isn't doing anything at all (at least from what's visible), I have something else to wrap my head around. When she turns 16, her parents are going to let her go on double dates! Heres the thing though, her parents are only letting me go on EVERY OTHER date. Meaning; I'll only get to go on 50% of her dates and having the humiliation of knowing my girlfriend is on a date with some random Super Mormon guy everyother week! (She says she doesn't want to [word of mouth] but she 'has' to anyway.) How do I deal with that? How do I deal with any of this!? Please, I really need some advice. What should I do about all of this?? What can I do?!... I feel like I'm cornered and having to compromie to things I don't agree with :(