Posted by:
imaworkinonit
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Date: May 22, 2011 10:43PM
For me, it was just a GIVEN that we HAD to pay it, on gross. But there were many times that money was tight. There were times we paid with a cash advance.
In our case, tithing meant we weren't saving for retirement when we could have been doing that. There were times when we simply didn't have the money and we borrowed the money for it.
Think about the drain on a budget at any income level:
You make 2000 a month, lose some to taxes , SS, and medicare (very little in that income bracket) and pay $200 to tithing. $200 is a LOT of money on a tight budget. Maybe a modest car payment, or home repairs, or retirement savings. But probably that $200 will come out of things you desperately need.
$3000, it's $300. To put that in perspective, if a person made 3000 a month they would be FOOLISH to spend 300 a month on a car, because they'd probably be living hand to mouth. And they'd probably default on the loan. But even more foolish than buying a car, which they could ACTUALLY use, they give the money away, with NO accounting of where it goes.
On $4000, still a below average income, $400 a month of money needed for necessities of life, GONE.
On $6000, when people start getting to an income that is a little more comfortable, they are giving $600 of their income, or $7200 a year away. That's money for a down payment, retirement or college they are giving away. Or their family vacations.
I could go on, but my point is that people reduce the quality of life. What could someone DO with an extra $200, $300, $400, $600 per month? Instead, they are guilted and threatened into paying to a church that doesn't even NEED the money, and doesn't feel obligated to use the assets it DOES have to help the poor. But instead, it buys real estate and a mall during a recession and balks at the idea of helping members who have paid tithing their whole lives but hit hard times during the bad economy.
end of rant