Posted by:
anon4drama
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Date: May 24, 2011 06:26PM
I am in the middle of changing the custody of my teen son. He's struggled with moving to UT, the divorce, his TBM controlling mom and has wanted to live with me for a while. We went to court and after a long struggle, I finally obtained guardianship and he'll be moving in with me soon. I live in another state from him.
However, one of the issues is that he skipped enough school that he had to report to truancy court. Over the past year, the truancy court has stopped him from coming out to visit for winter holiday (I had bought a plane tix and they would never let him leave the state of UT). The delayed him last summer by several weeks from me exercising parenting time here. All of this because they felt they needed to punish him for his school record. My ex and I have joint custody, even though she is the primary residential custodial parent, and we have equal decision making authority.
Now that I have guardianship, the UT truancy is still impeding him from coming to live with me to enroll in school until the judge rules on allowing him to leave. That hearing was just delayed because his mother requested a change in schedule to let her have vacation time with the kids. Without consulting me, they allowed the change. That delay will likely affect his ability to enroll in summer school here and get caught up on credits.
This is my frustration: The UT Court blocks me from exercising parenting time all together as a way to punish him, but they have no problem giving the mother leniency for her vacation.
How is this fair?