Posted by:
Jesus Smith
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Date: May 25, 2011 11:44AM
Dan Bain Wrote:
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> I know men would be happier if they went without
> children and marriage too. Given the fact that 60
> percent of marriages end in divorce, and 90
> percent of those divorces are sought by women, who
> end up with everything, including punitive alimony
> and child support which is often permanent, it
> would be better for men to quit marrying and
> having children, at least in the USA.
I agree. Marriage itself, is the biggest hurdle to happiness. In the US, of first marriages over 40% fail (~60% 2nd and ~70% 3rd, see
http://www.divorcestatistics.org/). Of those that remain married, not half are usually happy married. That means, doing the math, that less than a fourth of all US marriages are actually routinely happy marriages.
A rate of 25% success a big FAIL.
On children: it seems to me that most women with children are unhappy with the way the kids are behaving. Most women without children regret never having them. Men could do with or without them and find their happiness often in other ways.