Posted by:
toto
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Date: May 25, 2011 02:19PM
A no-mo colleague talked with me and a Mormon colleague about the possibility of getting divorced. Me, a divorced person, and the Mormon colleague who's married had differing opinions that we gave.
I told he/she to keep trying to work it out (the person met "another" and now wants a divorce). I gave my perspective of how difficult divorce has been for me even though my ex and I have done a spectacular job of keeping our communication positive for the kids' sake.
My Mormon colleague, on the other hand, asked, "Are you happy? Is it worth it to stay for the kids?" And this is what the no-mo colleague was looking for in a response.
As much as divorce has been good for us all around, kids included, I still am an advocate for marriage and working it out because I feel like a failure for divorcing.
I just thought it was interesting that my Mormon colleague was more open to the idea of divorce than I was.