Posted by:
Elder George Carlin
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Date: June 02, 2011 02:23PM
I have a SIL who is a passive-aggressive TBM. I was told by my ExMo/formally-resigned-from-the-church wife, she thinks her sister is jealous of my career success because I am ExMo.
SIL has always been a holier-than-thou individual who excludes my wife from activities with her other sisters and their mother because we have both formally resigned from the church.
We lived in others states for years, so it made it convenient to not see her. However, we now live in the same state and every ****ing time I see her, she always says a subtle jab about something and her eyes frequently roll when I respond to something she asks about.
A few years ago, she said a shitty comment and rolled her eyes after something I said and I confronted her on it right then and there. I said "____, why did you roll your eyes and say that?" She said "Ohhh, no big deal." I then said "No, I'd like to know, because that seems very rude and I'd like to know what you meant by it and understand what you said." She didn't say anything. She just sat in the chair looking at the table ignoring me. I let it go.
Today, she is unemployed, divorced, and the world seems to revolve around her and her child.
I've never been treated this way and was wondering if others here have experience a TBM relative who has ever outwardly stated they can't understand your success after you left the church.
I am curious.